Beale, Dorothea, 1831-1906; Cheltenham Ladies' College -- History; Teachers -- England -- Biography
‘It is my peculiar privilege to have spent all my College
career in her class, to go through years of her special
personal teaching. In later days, when the College assumed
larger dimensions, such an experience must have been rare;
to those who could claim it, it meant a potent influence for
life. How vividly can I recall her sitting on her little
dais, scanning the long school-room and discovering anything
amiss at the far end of it; or making a tour of inspection to
the various classes with a smiling countenance that banished
terror.’
So writes one old pupil of that time. Another speaks of that deep
tenderness which she ever felt, but often concealed, and was not afraid
of showing in a case of special need.
‘When I was almost a child at College I lost my mother, and
shall never forget Miss Beale’s tender sympathy and help. She
took such interest in my preparation for Confirmation, and
brought me herself to my first Communion,—just she and I alone;
a day I shall always remember. All through my girlhood she was
a kind and ready adviser, and continued her interest throughout
my married life. One always felt whatever happened to one, Now
I must tell Miss Beale.’
It is sad to know that Miss Beale was often depressed in that hopeful
spring-time of the College by the tongues of gossip and slander. She had
so profound a horror of petty talk about other people’s business, that
she possibly exaggerated the importance of carelessly repeated and untrue
reports. She mentions the local gossip from which the College had to
suffer.
‘Tales were handed about that it was impossible to trace. It
was said that accomplishments were neglected, that the pupils
played on dumb pianos. Persons who did not exist, and others
who would never have been admitted, were said to attend the
College. News was sent out to Canada that the cattle plague
was prevailing, and the report was half believed. The mere
circulation of absurd falsehoods is, however, often enough to
decide a mother to place her daughter elsewhere; sometimes no
falsehood at all, a contemptuous tone is enough. Such things
can only be met by silence and steady and unobtrusive work.
Perhaps one is better off without the children of those who
accept their rule of life from Mrs. Grundy. Certainly such
opposition and persecution prove an excellent tonic, and
I personally feel grateful for it, though it was a bitter
draught. We had to remember that the interests of some were
injured by the establishment of the College; the wish being
father to the thought, people would sometimes believe what they
said.’
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