Education -- Early works to 1800; England -- Social life and customs -- Early works to 1800; Etiquette; Home economics -- Early works to 1800; Table
¶ Go not forth{e} as a dombe freke,
Syn god hase laft the tonge to speke; 256
Lest meñ sey be sibbe or couthe,[9]
“Ȝond is a mo{n} w{i}t{h}-outen mouthe.”
¶ Speke neu{er} vnhonestly of woma{n} kynde,
Ne let hit neu{er} renne in þy mynde; 260
Þe boke hym call{es} a chorle of chere,
That vylany spekes be weme{n} sere:
For all{e} we ben of wymme{n} borñ,
And oure fadurs vs be-forne; 264
Þ{er}for{e} hit is a vnhonest thyng
To speke of hem in any hethyng.[10]
¶ Also a wyfe be-falle of ryȝt
To worschyp hyr husbonde bothe day {and} nyȝt, 268
To his byddyng be obediente,
And hym to s{er}ue w{i}t{h}-outen offence.
¶ Yf two brether be at debate,
Loke noþ{er} þ{o}u forþ{er} in hor hate, 272
But helpe to staunche hom of malice;
Þen þ{o}u art frende to bothe I-wys.
¶ Ȝif þ{o}u go w{i}t{h} a-noþ{er} at þo gate,
And ȝe be bothe of on astate, 276
Be curtasye and let hym haue þe way,
That is no vylanye, as me{n} me say;
And he be come{n} of gret kynraden,
Go no be-fore þawgh þ{o}u be beden; 280
And yf þ{a}t he þy mayst{ur} be,
Go not be-fore, for curtasé,
Noþ{er} in fylde, wode, noþ{er} launde,
Ne euen hym w{i}t{h}, but he c{om}maunde. 284
¶ Yf þ{o}u schalle on pilg{ri}mage go,
Be not þe thryd felaw for wele ne wo;
Thre oxen in plowgh may neu{er} wel drawe, [Fol. 17.]
Noþ{er} be craft, ryȝt, ne lawe. 288
¶ Ȝif þ{o}u be p{ro}fert to drynk of cup,
Drynke not al of, ne no way sup;
Drynk menskely and gyf agayne,
Þ{a}t is a curtasye, to speke in playne. 292
¶ In bedde yf þou falle herberet to be,
W{i}t{h} felawe, maystur, or her degré,
Þ{o}u schalt enquer{e} be curtasye
In what p{ar}[t] of þe bedde he wylle lye; 296
Be honest and lye þ{o}u fer hym fro,
Þ{o}u art not wyse but þ{o}u do so.
[Headnote: HOW TO BEHAVE.]
¶ W{i}t{h} woso men, boþe fer and negh,
The falle to go, loke þ{o}u be slegh 300
To aske his nome, and qweche he be,
Whidur he will{e}: kepe welle þes thre.
¶ W{i}t{h} freres on pilg{ri}mage yf þ{a}t þ{o}u go,
Þ{a}t þei will{e} ȝyme,[11] wilne þ{o}u also; 304
Als on nyȝt þ{o}u take þy rest,
And byde þe day as tru ma{n}nes gest.
¶ In no kyn house þ{a}t rede mon is,
Ne womo{n} of þo same colour y-wys, 308
Take neu{er} þy Innes for no kyn nede,
For þose be folke þ{a}t ar to drede.
¶ Yf any thurgh sturnes þe oppose,
Onswere hym mekely {and} make hym glose: 312
But glosand wordys þ{a}t falsed is,
Forsake, and alle that is omys.
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