Henry M. Stanley was never fond of company. He appreciates friends, and
those who know him intimately are very fond of him. He is generally
cautious and sparing of words, especially when strangers are about.
Receptions and dinners worry him, as he cannot bear being on exhibition
under showers of forced compliments. His manners and habits are those of
a gentleman. He shows great fondness for children, especially young
lads, who often approach him for his autograph. He will enter into
conversation with them and question them as to their purposes in life,
advising them as to the importance of honesty and character as essential
to success in life, and generally concluding with some incident in his
experience that is sure to make a lasting impression. In our private
car, where we lived for three months, were Mr. and Mrs. Stanley, Mrs.
Tennant, Mrs. Pond and her sister, and often some visiting friends.
Stanley would entertain us night after night with incidents of his
wonderful experience that would make a far more interesting book than he
has yet written. His best sayings have been spoken in private. Mrs.
Stanley, being a brilliant conversationalist, had the happy faculty of
bringing out his most interesting points.
Stanley is one of the best-read men I have ever met. He is familiar with
the histories of all civilized and uncivilized peoples. As a journalist
he is appreciated by reporters and interviewers more highly than any man
I ever knew except Mr. Beecher. Never did he refuse to see a
representative of the press who sent up his card. If busy, he would say:
“Please make my compliments to the gentleman and say that as soon as I
am disengaged I will be pleased to see him.”
Altogether, I have never parted with a client with greater regret, or
found one holding me in bonds of friendship and respect to so great a
degree. Sir Henry Stanley does me the honor to regard me as a friend,
and I am constantly indebted to him, and to Lady Stanley also, for
delightful correspondence. Some extracts from the many letters in my
possession will illustrate the value of the views expressed and the
soundness of a judgment which has been almost wholly verified by events.
I present without apology the extracts which follow.
A capital letter from the Richmond Terrace (London) home, under date of
October 2, 1892, is of interest because of its description of
electioneering in England:
* * * * *
“I am pledged,” he writes, “to many things in the coming time--the
contest at North Lambeth again, Bible Society, Missionary and
anti-Slavery meetings, keeping up the Uganda question before the public,
stimulating and comforting the Directors, and trivial things of this
kind. They absorb time and keep a man from stagnating, and perhaps a
modicum of good is extracted from the whole.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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