Educated working women: Essays on the economic position of women workers in the middle classesCollet, Clara E. (Clara Elizabeth)
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Educated working women: Essays on the economic position of women workers in the middle classes
Collet, Clara E. (Clara Elizabeth)
Women -- Education; Women -- Employment
will ensure her regard and make yourself happy at the same time; that
will give the highest pleasure to your parents, and obtain the esteem
of all your acquaintance. Think of these motives, my dear girl, and
resolve to exert yourself; and when you feel inclined to be angry
and cross, recollect whether it will be worth while, because you
have first got possession, to engage in a contest which will forfeit
all these advantages. Think with yourself, Shall I lose my sister’s
love or abate her regard for an orange, a plaything, or a seat? Do
I not prefer making her contented, and keeping my own mind serene
and placid, before the pleasure of enjoying a toy or any other thing
equally trifling? Will it tire me to fetch down her cloak, or her
doll, if she is in want of them? And shall I not do it in less time
than it will take to dispute whose business it is to go? In short, my
dear niece, you will find so much ease and pleasure result from the
resolution to oblige that I dare say, if you once attempt it, you will
be inclined to persevere.’
“‘But indeed, madam,’ returned Miss Nelly, ‘my sister is as cross to
me as I am to her, and therefore it is out of my power to do what you
advise; for I cannot bear to do everything for her when she will do
nothing for me.’
“‘You are both much to blame,’ said Mrs. Placid, ‘but as you are the
eldest it is your place to set a good example, and you do not know,
Nelly, how far that incitement will prevail. When you have refused her
one request, she is naturally, by way of retaliation, induced to deny
you another: this increases your mutual dissatisfaction and commences
new quarrels, by which means your anger is continued, so that neither
is inclined to oblige or condescend. But if she finds you continue
to be good-natured, she will catch the kind impression, as she used
to imbibe the ill habits of malevolence and rage. In every case you
should consider that the errors of another person are no excuse for
the indulgence of evil in yourself.’”
In the story of “Mrs. Teachum and the Little Female Academy,” the
school curriculum is very clearly stated. A delightful account of the
training received by Mrs. Teachum for the post of schoolmistress shows
the prevalence of a humble deference to men’s superior judgment, which
may help to explain the absence of enthusiasm on their part for the
higher education of women.
“This gentlewoman was the widow of a clergyman, with whom she had
lived nine years in all the harmony and concord which form the only
satisfactory happiness in the married state.
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