Educated working women: Essays on the economic position of women workers in the middle classesCollet, Clara E. (Clara Elizabeth)
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Educated working women: Essays on the economic position of women workers in the middle classes
Collet, Clara E. (Clara Elizabeth)
Women -- Education; Women -- Employment
connections of the person to whom you are speaking. When, therefore,
you are in company with strangers, you should accustom yourself to
say what is proper (which will be to answer any question they may ask
you) without at all considering how long you have known them; and be
assured that as an easy behaviour is at all times most agreeable, you
will certainly please when you speak with a modest degree of freedom.
Do not therefore make yourself uneasy with the idea of appearing
awkward, for by that means you will defeat your wishes; but endeavour
to retain your natural voice, and express yourself with the same
unconcern as you do in common conversation, since every species of
affectation is disagreeable, and nothing will so strongly recommend
you as simplicity.”
Mrs. Placid’s exhortation on mutual forbearance to the Miss Piners,
who had just emerged from a fight for a place in the window-seat, is
another example of excellent forensic powers brought to bear on the
education of little girls:
“‘There is great wickedness,’ replied her aunt, ‘in being so tenacious
of every trifle as to disagree about it with those with whom we live,
especially between brothers and sisters, who ought always to be
united in affection and love; and if you now indulge your passions
so that you will submit to no opposition, it will make you hated and
despised by everybody and constantly unhappy in your own mind. It is
impossible, my dear, to have every circumstance happen as we wish it
to do; but if a disappointment could at any time justify ill-nature
and petulance it would certainly be adding greatly to the unhappiness
of life. And do you think, my dear, that to fight on every occasion
with those who oppose you is at all consistent with the delicacy of a
young lady? I dare say, when you give yourself time to reflect on the
subject, you will perceive that you have been much to blame, and that
whenever you have suffered yourself to be ill-natured and quarrelsome
you have always been proportionably uneasy and wretched. Nothing can
so much contribute to your present felicity or future peace as a
good understanding and cordial affection for your sister. You will
most probably be more in her company than in any other person’s, and
how comfortable would it be, by every little office of kindness, to
assist each other! I am sure, if you would try the experiment, you
would find it much better than such churlish resistance and provoking
contentions. It is by good humour and an attention to please in
trifles that love is cherished and improved. If your sister wants
anything, be assiduous to fetch it. If she cannot untie a knot, do it
for her. If she wishes a place in the window, make room immediately.
Share with her all that is given to you: conceal her faults, as you
dislike your own to be observed; commend her good qualities, and never
envy, but endeavour to emulate, her perfections. By this method you
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