If criticism or suggestion in regard to the teacher’s work becomes
necessary, it should be made to him in private. If this proves
ineffective, let the matter be referred to those who are responsible for
the management of the school. Nothing should be said or done to weaken
the children’s respect for the one upon whom their well-being in so
great degree depends.
[Sidenote: _Acquaintance with the Teacher_]
The parents’ intimate knowledge both of the character of the children
and of their physical peculiarities or infirmities, if imparted to the
teacher, would be an assistance to him. It is to be regretted that so
many fail of realizing this. By most parents little interest is shown
either to inform themselves as to the teacher’s qualifications, or to
co-operate with him in his work.
[Sidenote: _Teacher’s Aid to Parents_]
Since parents so rarely acquaint themselves with the teacher, it is the
more important that the teacher seek the acquaintance of parents. He
should visit the homes of his pupils, and gain a knowledge of the
influences and surroundings among which they live. By coming personally
in touch with their homes and lives, he may strengthen the ties that
bind him to his pupils, and may learn how to deal more successfully with
their different dispositions and temperaments.
[Sidenote: _A Double Benefit_]
As he interests himself in the home education, the teacher imparts a
double benefit. Many parents, absorbed in work and care, lose sight of
their opportunities to influence for good the lives of their children.
The teacher can do much to arouse these parents to their possibilities
and privileges. He will find others to whom the sense of their
responsibility is a heavy burden, so anxious are they that their
children shall become good and useful men and women. Often the teacher
can assist these parents in bearing their burden, and, by counseling
together, both teacher and parents will be encouraged and strengthened.
[Sidenote: _Parents and Children_]
In the home training of the youth, the principle of co-operation is
invaluable. From their earliest years children should be led to feel
that they are a part of the home firm. Even the little ones should be
trained to share in the daily work, and should be made to feel that
their help is needed and is appreciated. The older ones should be their
parents’ assistants, entering into their plans, and sharing their
responsibilities and burdens. Let fathers and mothers take time to teach
their children, let them show that they value their help, desire their
confidence, and enjoy their companionship, and the children will not be
slow to respond. Not only will the parents’ burden be lightened, and the
children receive a practical training of inestimable worth, but there
will be a strengthening of the home ties and a deepening of the very
foundations of character.
[Sidenote: _Teachers and Students_]
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