Egypt of the Pharaohs and of the KhedivéZincke, F. Barham (Foster Barham)
History
Egypt of the Pharaohs and of the Khedivé
Zincke, F. Barham (Foster Barham)
Egypt -- Description and travel; Egypt -- History
The traveller is struck with the various ways in which the relation of
the sexes, that obtains throughout the East, has modified the manners,
and customs, and the whole life, of the people. Female society is
impossible. Women are not seen in the Mosks at times of prayer; and, we
are told, are seldom known to pray at home, never having been taught the
ceremonies requisite for prayer. One may walk through a crowded street
and not see a woman among the passers by. A woman cannot, in the regular
order of things, see the man who is to be her husband, or hold any
converse with him, till the marriage contract is executed, and she has
entered his house. Nor after marriage can she, with the exception of her
father and brothers, have any social intercourse with men. One cannot but
ask what it is that has given rise to manners, and customs, so opposite
to all we deem wise and desirable in this matter. We see at a glance that
they are the offspring of distrust and jealousy, and of a distrust and
jealousy, which, though unfelt by ourselves, exist in a high degree among
Orientals. What, then, is it that gives rise in them to these unpleasant
feelings? It must be some fact which not only has the power of producing
all this distrust and jealousy, drawing after them consequences of
sufficient reach to determine the whole character of the relations of the
sexes to each other, but it must also be something that is peculiarly
their own. Now, all these conditions are fulfilled by polygamy, and by
nothing else.
The fact that a man may possess a plurality of wives, and as many
odalisques as he can afford, and may wish to have in his establishment,
is the one element in oriental life to which everything else must
accommodate itself. Reverse the case, and, setting aside exceptional
instances, consider what, on the ordinary principles of human conduct,
would be the general working of the reverse of the practice. What
would be the state of things, and the customs and manners, which would
naturally arise, if the wife had to retain the affection of a plurality
of husbands? Would not, in that case, each woman, supposing they had the
power of establishing, and enforcing, what regulations they pleased, take
very good care that their husbands should have as little as possible to
do with other women? Would the singular wife allow the plural husbands to
see, or converse with, any woman but herself? Would she not confine them
in the men’s apartments? Would she allow them to go abroad unveiled? The
distrust and jealousy the women, under such arrangements, would feel,
have, under existing arrangements, been felt by the men. They have acted
on these feelings, and hence have been derived the manners and customs of
the East in this matter.
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