“If I was as good a poet as Boileau[280] I would complain of
l’Embarras de Londres, and also of l’Embarras de la Campagne,
and of the still greater embarras of travelling from one place
to another. When I had the happiness of your letter, I was so
encompassed with boxes, trunks and portmanteaus, and even that
lesser plague of band-boxes, that I could not give myself the
pleasure of writing to your Grace. Bag and baggage we arrived here
on Thursday night: first marched the child crying, nurse singing,
and the Abigails talking; Mr. Montagu, my sister and myself brought
up the rear. We had fine weather and a pleasant journey. We took a
boat from the Inn of Maidenhead Bridge, and rowed round his Grace
of Marlborough’s Island.[281] I had the pleasure of reflecting on
the agreeable morning I had spent there with you.”
[280] Nicholas Despreaux Boileau, born 1636, died 1711. French poet
of note.
[281] Monkey Island. See _ante_.
Further in the letter she states the duke[282] had planted some cannon
on the borders.
“Mrs. Medows has promised to take the child while I am sick,[283]
and I am best satisfied that it will be with her, for I am sure she
will take care of it, and thank God! it is a very strong healthy
child; indeed were he otherwise I should not leave him, for I think
when they are sickly, no one can be tender enough for them but a
parent.”
[282] Then the 3rd Duke of Marlborough.
[283] Meaning when she was to be inoculated.
She says--
“Dr. Courayer dined with us the day before we left town: he was
more elated with having a letter from you, than he had been
dejected with the overthrow of the French;[284] he looks well, and
his mind is the seat of tranquillity. Donnellan promises to come
down here soon. I hope she will stay till I go to London to be
inoculated.”
[284] Alluding to the battle of Dettingen, fought in June, 1743.
[Page heading: WOMAN’S EDUCATION]
In alluding to a lady who had “excellent sense and wit, but a want of
softness in her manners,” she adds--
“This is of great consequence to a woman to keep off disagreeable
manners, for the world does not mind our intrinsic worth so much as
the fashion of us, and will not easily forgive our not pleasing.
The men suffer for their levity in this case, for in a woman’s
education little but outward accomplishment is regarded. Some of
our sex have an affectation of goodness, others a contempt of
it from their education; but the many good women there are in
the world are merely so from nature, and I think it is much to
the credit and honour of untaught human nature that women are so
valuable for their merit and sense. Sure the men are very imprudent
to endeavour to make fools of those to whom they so much trust
their honour and happiness and fortune, but it is in the nature of
mankind to hazard their peace to secure power, and they know fools
make the best slaves.”
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