At this period Lord Andover presented the Rev. John Botham to the
living of Albury in Surrey. Mrs. Botham and Mrs. Sterne had, as we
learn from a letter of Mrs. Montagu’s, been brought up in great luxury,
with a constant succession of company, whilst their father, the Rev.
Robert Lumley, was alive. Reduced to poverty by his death, they both
married men of small fortune, therefore one is not surprised that Lydia
Botham, unaccustomed to small means, and, in spite of her delicacy,
extremely fond of society, soon incurred debt and embarrassment with a
growing family and small income.
Lady Andover, who was her constant and best friend, writes on June 26
to Mrs. Montagu to explain the excessive melancholy of Lydia, who was
proceeding that week to Albury. She says--
“The blame they lay upon themselves for having lived beyond their
circumstances and the sense of having injured their children, of
whom they are most tender, is a reflection sufficient to bring a
person of Lydia’s sense and goodness to the dejected state she is
in. I that love and value her most sincerely, and _who have largely
shared in the best she was ever possest of_, bear a great share in
her sufferings....”
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She then goes on to talk of how she and the Duchess of Portland wished
to get more preferment for Mr. Botham.
“I have not seen Harry Legge[409] for a great while, but I know
he has a very sincere regard for Lydia, and should hope it was in
his power to do them some good, but then Alas! poor Johnny is such
a Johnny that there arises all the difficulty of getting them any
preferment. Lydia also is so blind to all his defects that the
least disrespectful thought of Johnny would make her more than ever
miserable.” She continues to say, “Any exchange from Staffordshire
must be advantageous to them, for there, as they unfortunately
began with entering into all the expenses that attend a great
neighbourhood, they could never have lived in the way they intend
doing and may do here.... This place is but a mile from them, and I
don’t despair of making a very beaten path between us by constant
use.”
[409] Harry Legge, second son of the Earl of Dartmouth, was Lord of
the Treasury and Chancellor of Exchequer; a first cousin of Lady
Andover’s.
Mrs. Montagu hastened to Albury, and, from a letter of Lady Andover’s,
appears to have not only given good advice for the future, but
helped their purse. Harry Legge also paid them a visit, endeavoured
to persuade them they could live on £300 a year, gave good advice,
but made no promise for the future. Lady Andover says, “He gave them
frugal good advice, but no hints or promises to make the discourse be
relished; he went away yesterday morning, and I am persuaded when it is
in his power he will remember them.” At the end of the letter she says--
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