Empires and Emperors of Russia, China, Korea, and Japan: Notes and Recollections by Monsignor Count Vay de Vaya and LuskodVay, Péter
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Empires and Emperors of Russia, China, Korea, and Japan: Notes and Recollections by Monsignor Count Vay de Vaya and Luskod
Vay, Péter
Asia -- Description and travel; Eastern question (Far East)
Dress has thus far not been touched by the fashion, and anything more
beautiful than the richly embroidered silk and velvet mantles of the
wealthy classes can hardly be imagined. Neither has Americanism been
able to obliterate the old-world manners and rules of courtesy, or to
sever the bond of family affection and the inborn respect to parents. A
Chinaman protects his home above all that is dear to him. In my
intercourse with the Chinese I have noticed that even the most advanced
among them, who have lived for years in England or in France, and who
have enjoyed all the advantages of our commercial and industrial
achievements, scrupulously avoid imitating the private life of the West.
All that relates to business is zealously excluded from the home, and
it frequently happens that the wife or the child has never entered the
office of husband or father, nor does the father ever mention business
matters in the home circle. The office is for work, he says, the home
for rest.
It has often been remarked to me that with us the wear and whirl of
business and of excessive ambition, destroy the joy of living. One of my
acquaintances at Hong Kong once said, "The conditions of life in the
West nowadays make man his own enemy. He sacrifices his whole life to
acquire what is in the main worthless, without giving himself time to
enjoy what he already possesses."
A banker expressed himself in a similar manner. "Most people in Europe,"
he said, "love money for its own sake, but not for what money can do to
ennoble their lives."
The more intimately I have become acquainted with Chinese mood and
thought, the better have I learned to understand the psychical condition
of the people. It has been said that the Chinaman, when first he comes
to Europe, is struck by the sad expression on all the faces. They say
that the Anglo-Saxon, or perhaps more still the Latin nations, appear to
be more upset by some paltry superficial annoyance, a social slight or
deception, than the Chinaman is at the sight of death. They say that we
prize exorbitantly what is of small real value, while the things which
make life worth living and give inward satisfaction are neglected by us.
And I must confess that I have not been able to confute this statement.
Life in the West--that is to say, the stability of the moral equilibrium
of existence--is very precarious. Steam-engines have long since killed
all sentimentality in us, and deeper feelings are only too frequently
sacrificed to outward appearances and conventionalities. Where even the
basis of religious conviction fails, there is nothing left to compensate
for the vicissitudes of life.
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