But in fact such a triumph belongs to no man. When Samuel Johnson, at
twenty-six, married his wife, he gave the dull an advantage over himself
which none but the dullest will take. He chose, for love, a woman who
had the wit to admire him at first meeting, and in spite of first sight.
"That," she said to her daughter, "is the most sensible man I ever met."
He was penniless. She had what was no mean portion for those times and
those conditions; and, granted that she was affected, and provincial, and
short, and all the rest with which she is charged, she was probably not
without suitors; nor do her defects or faults seem to have been those of
an unadmired or neglected woman. Next, let us remember what was the
aspect of Johnson's form and face, even in his twenties, and how little
he could have touched the senses of a widow fond of externals. This one
loved him, accepted him, made him happy, gave to one of the noblest of
all English hearts the one love of its sombre life. And English
literature has had no better phrase for her than Macaulay's--"She
accepted, with a readiness which did her little honour, the addresses of
a suitor who might have been her son."
Her readiness did her incalculable honour. But it is at last worth
remembering that Johnson had first done her incalculable honour. No one
has given to man or woman the right to judge as to the worthiness of her
who received it. The meanest man is generally allowed his own counsel as
to his own wife; one of the greatest of men has been denied it. "The
lover," says Macaulay, "continued to be under the illusions of the
wedding day till the lady died." What is so graciously said is not
enough. He was under those "illusions" until he too died, when he had
long passed her latest age, and was therefore able to set right that
balance of years which has so much irritated the impertinent. Johnson
passed from this life twelve years older than she, and so for twelve
years his constant eyes had to turn backwards to dwell upon her. Time
gave him a younger wife.
And here I will put into Mrs. Johnson's mouth, that mouth to which no one
else has ever attributed any beautiful sayings, the words of Marceline
Desbordes-Valmore to the young husband she loved: "Older than thou! Let
me never see thou knowest it. Forget it! I will remember it, to die
before thy death."
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