Essays in medical sociology, Volume 1 (of 2)Blackwell, Elizabeth
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Essays in medical sociology, Volume 1 (of 2)
Blackwell, Elizabeth
Prostitution; Sexual ethics; Social medicine
thus witness a widespread and inevitable deterioration in manners,
dress, thought, and habits amongst the respectable classes of young
women. This result leads eventually, as on the Continent, to the entire
separation of young men and women in the middle and upper ranks of
life, to the arrangement of marriage as a business affair, and to the
union of the young with the old.
The faults now so often charged upon young women, their love of dress,
luxury, and pleasure, their neglect of economy and dislike of steady
home duties, may be traced directly to the injurious influence which
habits of licentiousness are exercising directly and indirectly upon
marriage, the home, and society. The subject of dress is one of serious
importance, for it is a source of extravagance in all classes, and one
of the strongest temptations to vice among poor girls. The creation of
this morbid excess in dress by licentiousness is evident. If physical
attraction is the sole or chief force which draws young men to young
women, then everything which either enhances physical charms, which
brings them more prominently forward, or which supplies the lack of
physical beauty, must necessarily be resorted to by women, whose nature
it is to draw men to them. The stronger the general domination of
physical sensation--over character, sympathy, companionship, mutual
help, and social growth--becomes amongst men, the more exclusive,
intense, and competitive must grow this morbid devotion to dress on the
part of women. Did young men seriously long for a virtuous wife and
happy home, and fit themselves to secure those blessings, young women
would naturally cultivate the domestic qualities which insure a bright,
attractive home. The young man, however, is now discouraged from early
marriage; the question soon presents itself to him: ‘Why should I
marry and burden myself with a wife and family? I am very well off
as I am; I can spend my money as I like on personal pleasures; I can
get all that I want from women without losing my liberty or assuming
responsibilities!’ The respectable girl is thus forced into a most
degrading and utterly unavailing competition with the prostitute or the
mistress. Marriage is indefinitely postponed by the young man; at first
it may be from necessity, later from choice. The young woman, unable to
obtain the husband suited to her in age, must either lead a single life
or accept the unnatural union with a rich elderly man.
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