Essays in medical sociology, Volume 1 (of 2)Blackwell, Elizabeth
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Essays in medical sociology, Volume 1 (of 2)
Blackwell, Elizabeth
Prostitution; Sexual ethics; Social medicine
One of our ablest surgeons has left on record the following weighty
advice:[34] ‘The boy has to learn that to his immature frame every
sexual indulgence is unmitigated evil. Every illicit pleasure is a
degradation to be bitterly regretted hereafter.... If a boy is once
fully impressed that _all_ such indulgences are dirty and mean, and,
with the whole force of his unimpaired energy, determines he _will_
not disgrace himself by yielding, a very bright and happy future is
before him.... Where, as is the case with a very large number, a young
man’s education has been properly watched, and his mind has not been
debased by vile practices, it is usually a comparatively easy task to
be continent, and requires no great or extraordinary effort, and every
year of voluntary chastity renders the task easier by the mere force
of habit.... It is of vital importance that boys and young men should
know, not only the guilt of an illicit indulgence of their dawning
passions, but also the _danger_ of straining an immature power, and the
solemn truth that the _want_ will be an irresistible tyrant only to
those who have lent it strength by yielding; that _the only true safety
lies in keeping even the thoughts pure_.... It is easier to abstain
altogether than to be occasionally incontinent, and then continent
for a period.... If a young man wished to undergo the acutest sexual
suffering he could adopt no more certain method than to propose to be
incontinent, with the avowed intention of becoming continent again when
he had “sown his wild oats.” The agony of breaking off a habit which
so rapidly entwines itself with every fibre of the human frame is such
that it would not be too much to say to any youth commencing a career
of vice: “You are going a road on which you will _never_ turn back.
However much you may wish it the struggle will be too much for you. You
had better stop now. It is your last chance.”’
Our early neglect of youth is, then, one of the great causes of social
immorality. The most earnest thought of parents should be given to the
means of securing influences which will strengthen and purify their
children in the early years of life. Evil outward temptations abound,
but they must not be allowed to exercise their effects unchecked; they
must be counteracted by more powerful influences for good.
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