Essays in medical sociology, Volume 1 (of 2)Blackwell, Elizabeth
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Essays in medical sociology, Volume 1 (of 2)
Blackwell, Elizabeth
Prostitution; Sexual ethics; Social medicine
The companions chosen by the child at school or the youth at college
are of extreme importance to the growth of character, and the exercise
of influence over this choice, without interfering with the freedom of
the child, is one of the greatest aids that a parent can render it.
The intimacy between those who are entering upon life together, and
who have the same future before them, must necessarily increase and
become a great fact in the young life; but it is essential that the
parent should know who these companions are, and the character of the
influence that will be exerted. If the parent be the friend of his
child, he can also be the friend of his friend. Tact and sympathy are
of the utmost value in welcoming and attracting the youthful friends,
and the wise parental care thus exercised towards offspring, extends
necessarily beyond the individual home.
The attention of the parent must always be ready to observe the signs
of growing sex in sons as well as daughters. Numberless indications,
which none but the mother can note, warn her of that approaching
crisis of early manhood, now so fatal to our youth. No wise mother
observes this change without a deepening of respect and tenderness,
and of infinite maternal yearning to strengthen, guide, and ennoble
her man-child. At this epoch is often thrown upon her an immense
responsibility--a responsibility so grave that it may involve the
ruin or salvation of her son--viz., the choice of his physician. The
importance of this choice cannot be over-estimated by the parent. The
young are easily alarmed about their health; they are at the same time
utterly unable to judge of their own condition; they have no knowledge
to guide them, no experience by which to measure their symptoms.
They place absolute confidence in their medical adviser; his opinion
and advice outweigh all other considerations and supersede all other
counsel. The parent must therefore realize that when a physician is
selected for the growing lad, an authority is placed over him which
may become stronger than the parental influence, and be henceforth the
most powerful support or antagonist in the moral as well as physical
guidance of the son.
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