Fetichism in West Africa : $b forty years' observation of native customs and superstitionsNassau, Robert Hamill
Philosophy
Fetichism in West Africa : $b forty years' observation of native customs and superstitions
Nassau, Robert Hamill
Ethnology -- Africa, West; Fetishism -- Africa, West
Her father, though himself having many wives, said, "You now change your
mind, and are willing to share your husband with another woman. Will there
be no trouble in the future?" She answered "No!" He repeated his question;
but she assured him it would be agreeable. So she took her sister (without
consulting the husband, as he was under her control, by power of her
ngalo), led her to her house, and presented her as a new wife to her
husband.
They remained on these terms for some time without any trouble. But as
time went on, the report about that handsome man went far, and finally
reached Ra-Mborakinda's town. Another woman lived there, also named
Ilâmbe, of the same age as the other, and she was unmarried. This Ilâmbe
said to herself, "I am tired of hearing the report about this handsome
man. I will go, though uninvited I be, and see for myself." So she tells
her brother and some of his men, "Take me over there to that town, and I
will return to-day." She told her father the same words: "I am going to
see that man, and will return." When this Ilâmbe got to the other Ilâmbe's
house, the husband was out, but the wife received her with great
hospitality; and the two sisters and their visitor all ate together. Soon
the husband came, and the wife introduced the visitor. "Here is my friend
Ilâmbe come to see you." "Good," he said. Then it was late in the day, and
the visiting Ilâmbe's attendants said to her, "The day is past; let us be
going." But she refused to go, and told them to return, saying that she
would stay awhile with her friend Ilâmbe.
But really, in her coming she was not simply a visitor and sightseer; she
intended to stay and share in the husband. As her brother was leaving, he
asked, "But when will you return? and shall we come for you?" She said,
"No; I myself will come back when I please." When the evening came, the
hostess began to fix a sleeping-place for her visitor, showing her much
kindness in the care of her arrangements.
The second day the hostess observed something suspicious in the manner
with which her husband regarded the visitor; he said to his wife, "Here is
your friend. Speak to her for me. Are you willing to do that?" She looked
at him steadily, and slowly said, "Yes." So at evening she spoke of the
matter to her visitor, who at once assented.
When Ilâmbe parted with her husband before retiring, she said to him, "Go
with this new woman, but do not forget your and my morning custom." [That
was their habit of rising very early for a morning bath.] He only said,
"Yes." They all retired for the night.
The next morning the hostess was up early as usual, and had her bath, and
was out of her room, waiting. But the man was not up yet, nor were there
any sounds of preparation in his room. So Ilâmbe, after waiting awhile,
had to call to waken him. He woke, saying, "Oh, yes, yes, I'm coming!"
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