‘Husband and wife should be as the milch-kine, which were coupled together to carry the ark of God; or as the two Cherubims, that looked one upon another, and both upon the mercy-seat; or as the two tables of stone, on each of which were engraven the laws of God. In some families married persons are like Jeremiah’s two baskets of figs, the one very good, the other very evil; or like fire and water, whilst the one is flaming in devotion, the other is freezing in corruption. There is a two-fold hindrance in holiness: first, on the right side; secondly, on the left. On the right side, when the wife would run in God’s way, the husband will not let her go; when the fore-horse in a team will not draw, he wrongeth all the rest; when the general of an army forbids a march, all the soldiers stand still.’ ‘Man is an affectionate creature. Now the woman’s behaviour should be such towards the man, as to require his affection by increasing his delectation; _that the new-born love may not be blasted as soon as it is blossomed, that it may not be ruined before it be rooted_.’ ‘Husband and wife should be like two candles burning together, which make the house more lightsome; or like two fragrant flowers bound up in one nosegay, that augment its sweetness; or like two well-tuned instruments, which, sounding together, make the more melodious music.’ ‘A spouse should be more careful of her children’s breeding than she should be fearful of her children’s bearing. _Take heed lest these flowers grow in the devil’s garden._’ ‘_Good education is the best livery you can give them living; and it is the best legacy you can leave them when dying._’ ‘Let these small pieces of timber be hewed and squared for the celestial building; by putting a _sceptre of grace_ into their hands, you will set _a crown of glory_ upon their heads.’ ‘Marriages are styled _matches_, yet amongst those many that are married, how few are there that are _matched_! Husbands and wives are like locks and keys, that rather break than open, except the wards be answerable.’ CHAPTER VI. RING TOKENS. _The Essex Ring._ P. 336.