poor women of bygone times who trotted round on their own feet wearing
coarse and heavy gowns only fit, as they consider, for peasants. The
house must correspond and be furnished according to modern ideas. The
walls are hung from floor to ceiling with damask, and fine pictures
are needful; above all the chairs, when not covered with velvet, must
at least be covered with silk so that the ladies may sit softly. Whoso
takes a wife must also keep a good table, not served with homely
dishes, which are plebeian, for the ladies of the present day insist on
delicate food, not for gluttony—oh no—but because it keeps them healthy
and of good heart, and consequently enables them to have fine and
well-made children. If linen has to be sewn for the husband or babes
the work is commonly sent to the convents, and then the husband is told
there is so much to pay for such work and so much for the other and he
has to loose his purse-strings or confront a pouting face.
“With what majesty do the ladies now drive in their carriage, a peacock
when he rustles and spreads his tail is not so proud and puffed up.
A new custom too has been introduced in order to have more frequent
occasion for going about the town. Visits are paid to brides, even
by those who are not relations, and thus the women can spy out other
folk’s business, which is always attractive. If the house be not nobly
furnished they jeer at the master thereof and call him a miser; but if
it be better found than their own they return home discontented and
begin to grumble, saying: ‘I have been to see such a one and her house
is beautiful; she has this and the other and all is in good taste; but
we live worse than artisans, so that I no longer dare invite anyone
as I will not have it said that I, who am as good as many of them,
and had a marriage portion large eno’ to enjoy what they have—but as
it must be so, _pazienza_.’ And the poor wretch of a husband has to
swallow it all, and either be constantly tormented, or content his wife
and do what he dislikes or perchance cannot afford; for at length the
perpetual clapper of the bell at night would break even the head of a
ram, which is proverbially hard.
“The ladies now all carry fans attached to golden chains when they
leave the house, and not only in the streets do they flutter them but
in the churches, as an aid to devotion while hearing mass. I have been
told by a lady of honour and veracity, not in fun but in sober earnest,
that she has seen women’s smocks trimmed round with lace exactly
like Monsignori’s surplices. When they leave town for their villas,
if the carriages are too large and heavy to go the whole distance, a
lettiga[79] is necessary because mounting a horse savours of rusticity,
though I have seen my mother-in-law, wife of Messer Luigi Capponi, and
the wife of his brother Alessandro, who were not exactly plebeians or
beggars, going to their villa in Val d’ Elsa some twenty miles from
Florence on the horses of their factor or peasants.
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