Fragments of voyages and travels, including anecdotes of a naval life : $b Chiefly for the use of young persons. Vol. 1 (of 3)Hall, Basil
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Fragments of voyages and travels, including anecdotes of a naval life : $b Chiefly for the use of young persons. Vol. 1 (of 3)
Hall, Basil
Voyages and travels -- Juvenile literature
It was not thought right to let any of us young folks visit the
shore alone; but I was fortunate in being invited to accompany one
of the officers. To the friendship of this most excellent person, at
the periods of most need, I feel so much more indebted than I can
venture to express without indelicacy, that I shall say nothing of
the gratitude I have so long borne him in return. Perhaps, indeed,
the best, as being the most practical, repayment we can ever make
for such attentions is, to turn them over, again and again, to some
other person similarly circumstanced with ourselves at those early
periods. This would be acting in the spirit with which Dr. Franklin
tells us he used to lend money, as he never gave it away without
requiring from the person receiving such assistance, a promise to repay
the loan, not to himself, but to transfer it, when times improved,
to some one else in distress, who would enter into the same sort of
engagement to circulate the charity. On this principle, I have several
times, in the course of my professional life, rather surprised young
middies by giving them exactly such a lift as I myself received at
New York—shewing them strange places, and introducing them to the
inhabitants, in the way my kind friend adopted towards me. These boys
may perhaps have fancied it was owing to their own uncommon merit
that they were so noticed; while all the time I may have merely been
relieving my own conscience, and paying off, by indirect instalments,
a portion of that debt of gratitude which, in spite of these
disbursements, I find only increases in proportion as my knowledge of
the world gives me the means of appreciating its value.
That it is the time and manner of doing a kindness which constitute its
chief merit, as a matter of feeling at least, is quite true; and the
grand secret of this delicate art appears to consist in obliging people
just at the moments, and, as nearly as possible, in the particular way,
in which they themselves wish the favour to be done. However perverse
their tastes may be, and often, perhaps, because they are perverse,
people do not like even to have favours thrust upon them. But it was my
good fortune on this, and many other occasions in life, early and late,
to fall in with friends who always contrived to nick the right moments
to a hair’s-breadth. Accordingly, one morning, I received an invitation
to accompany my generous friend, one of the lieutenants, to New York,
and I felt, as he spoke, a bound of joy, the bare recollection of which
makes my pulse beat ten strokes per minute quicker, at the distance of
a good quarter of a century!
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