Frances Mary Buss and her work for educationRidley, Annie E.
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Frances Mary Buss and her work for education
Ridley, Annie E.
Buss, Frances Mary, 1827-1894
“My sister was a pupil of the school before me, and when I was
quite little I remember longing for my tenth birthday, when I
should be old enough to go there myself. I did not, as a matter
of fact, go till several years later, as I was rather a delicate
child. My first introduction to Miss Buss must have been when I
was very small, for my sister used to tell me how she took me
into the office, and how Miss Buss set me on the table before
her and put my two little feet together, as she told me I was
not _quite_ ready for her class just yet. How like that is to
her way with little children! I think I must have loved her from
that very time!”
The child is a woman grown as we see her again—
“I was in great trouble and perplexity, and in the midst of it
went to spend my holidays with Miss Buss at Fécamp. It was
nearly midnight when we reached her, but she was sitting up for
us, with some hot soup ready, and everything was thought of as
it might have been by my own mother. I had no mother then; but
when Miss Buss took off my wraps with her own hands, and folded
me in her arms, I felt that a second mother had indeed been
given to me. Perhaps I felt this the more because I was with her
at Herne Bay when the news came of my own mother’s sudden death.
It was a Sunday morning, and the trains would not allow of my
going home till later in the day. It would have been a terrible
time but for Miss Buss’ tenderness. She seemed to feel with me
as if the loss were her own. I shall never, never forget it.”
In sorrow, in joy, or in disappointment she was ever ready with comfort,
with sympathy, and with cheer. The third scene is given in a letter,
sent with the remark: “How characteristic it was of her warm sympathy
with all with whom she had to do”—
“Nov., 1881.
“MY DEAR EMILY,
“Old pupil and friend of so many years! I send you my
warmest congratulations. I am very glad for you and our dear
friend Mrs. Bryant, also for Florence Eves and Constance Dicker.
“It seems to us short-sighted mortals that it would be desirable
to have our pleasures _un_mixed, but it never is so. My pleasure
is alloyed by my dear R——’s and E——’s failure, and yours by the
absence of your dear mother! But ‘all things work together for
good,’ if we will but believe.
“Always yours lovingly,
“FRANCES M. BUSS.
“To Miss Emily Findon, B.A.”
Equally to the point is another note, of which the recipient says: “The
whole tone was so strong and so strengthening, so different from the
many letters of kind, but more or less worrying, sympathy received at
the time”—
“Schlangenbad.
“MY DEAR A——,
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