Frances Mary Buss and her work for educationRidley, Annie E.
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Frances Mary Buss and her work for education
Ridley, Annie E.
Buss, Frances Mary, 1827-1894
But Miss Buss had always faith enough in the future to regard the modern
roughness as merely a transitional stage, and as the outcome, in the
first place, of the higher standard of morals which places _fact_ before
_seeming_. The perfect outward grace of the courtly days did not always
imply corresponding grace within. When these first days of reaction
shall pass, and a really wide and high culture shall have become
general, we may expect the development of a new gracefulness which shall
be the genuine outcome of a truly gracious spirit.
“For manners are not idle, but the fruit
Of loyal nature, and of noble mind.”
In the very early days at Myra, the rules were few and simple, and the
girls were trusted to do the right for love of it. Miss Buss believed in
the force of a strong public opinion which should put all wrong-doing in
its true light as hurtful to the community; and she considered it the
chief advantage of a large public school that a strong feeling for the
right should prevail, and, by its very force, put down all that was base
or ignoble.
It was a grief to her to make new rules, and I can recall her sorrow, on
several occasions, when it became necessary to add to those already
existing—in every case as the result of some act on the part of a
selfish minority, who thus imposed additional burdens on the obedient
majority.
Miss Fawcett, who had long experience at Myra, and Miss Edwards, who
followed her there, speak very strongly about the thoughtful care which
in all cases aimed at preventing possible dangers. Girls whose influence
might be hurtful to each other were placed in rooms remote; and the
sitting-rooms were made attractive, and thus kept the pupils to some
extent under constant supervision.
In Miss Buss’ letters during the holidays there are many proofs of this
thoughtfulness. She writes to Miss Fawcett—
“Of these two I know nothing—morally, I mean. But A. ought to be
kept if possible from B., and also from C. and D.; the former
cannot manage her, and the latter gives in, perhaps, to her.
Would it do for her to take F.’s bed, in G.’s room? It requires
consideration.”
This consideration reached all round. Another long letter goes into
arrangements for Miss Fawcett’s own relief from some of the care, each
detail being worked out with the utmost exactness.
Or again—
“Can you invite X. to visit you on the half-term holiday, or, if
possible, from Friday or Saturday before? I fear she may be
asked to two places where I do not wish her to go just now. She
is not easy to manage, and her companions are of great
importance; and yet it is difficult for me to decline
invitations when the reason cannot be explained.
“If you do not much mind, I will not send the three girls on
Sunday until six o’clock, when they will be in time for service,
unless it is raining.
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