Frances Mary Buss and her work for educationRidley, Annie E.
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Frances Mary Buss and her work for education
Ridley, Annie E.
Buss, Frances Mary, 1827-1894
“My earliest recollection of Miss Buss was when I went in for
the entrance exam.; in a state of great trepidation, I
accompanied her along the corridor to take off my things, and I
think she saw my poor fingers shaking, for she suddenly took me
in her warm embrace, and said, ‘Do your best, my dear child, and
you must leave the rest,’ and then, looking me in the face, with
another kiss, she said, ‘I _think_ we are going to be friends.’
And the radiant smile that accompanied the kiss won my heart and
banished my fears.
“I had been at Myra Lodge only a few weeks when, one of the
girls having acted contrary to regulations, a warm discussion on
her conduct took place in the playroom downstairs, some
defending and some disapproving of her conduct. We were quite
unaware that in the heat of discussion our voices were loud
enough to be heard upstairs; it was a point on which I felt
strongly, and I expressed myself somewhat emphatically for a
new-comer. The next day Miss Buss sent for me, said she knew of
the incident, and ‘you said so-and-so, my child; I am delighted
to think you feel in that way, you were on the right side, and
remember, dear, I shall always _expect_ to find you on the right
side.’ How often that belief in my being ‘on the right side’
helped me to make the struggle for the right only _I_ can tell!”
The same writer gives a glimpse of the brightest side of the relation
between the head and her Myra girls—
“Miss Buss would often come round and see we were quite
comfortable in our beds, and give us a maternal ‘tuck-up.’ One
morning at breakfast she came behind my chair, and, turning my
chin up with her hand to look in my face, said with laughing
voice and eye—
“‘Well, did I cheat you last night?’
“A vision of a figure in red dressing-gown tucking me up and
kissing me sprang into my mind, and I said—
“‘Oh, I remember; I thought it was mother.’
“And, whispering to me, she said, as she kissed me, ‘I thought
so, dear; you gave me such a hug, you sent me so happy to bed!’”
And this, again, from another old pupil, is equally attractive—
“Never shall I forget her kindness when confined to my room at
Myra by illness. It was the bright spot in my day when Miss Buss
appeared in the evening to tuck me up in bed, and wish me good
night. More than once she was on her way to some dinner or
meeting, and wore a blue _moiré_, which I thought singularly
becoming. Her smile, peculiarly sweet, piquant, and gracious,
lighted up my long, dull hours, and lingers with me still.
“There was something so large and unfluctuating about her that
one felt one could trust her with and through everything.”
An apparently harmless bit of nonsense brought about another episode
which deeply impressed the girl who tells it—
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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