Frances Mary Buss and her work for educationRidley, Annie E.
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Frances Mary Buss and her work for education
Ridley, Annie E.
Buss, Frances Mary, 1827-1894
“She remembered one’s likes and dislikes in the way of food. One
of the last times I had tea with her (in October, 1874) she had
some special cakes which she knew I liked, and when Mr. Hill and
I were staying with her at Overstrand, if we expressed a liking
for anything, she said to her companion, ‘Why do you not get it
for them?’
“This minute thoughtfulness is a matter of constant comment.
Miss Edwards tells of a visit from an old pupil who brought her
daughter to Myra, and at tea-time Miss Buss asked, ‘Does your
little girl like sugar as much as you did, my dear?’”
During her nephews’ college career she several times took a house at
Cambridge, always arranging something in which her girl-undergraduates
could join. Of one of her dances there is an account from her friend
Mrs. Mathieson—
“In January, 1886, Miss Buss called and asked me to join her in
giving a dance at Cambridge. Her two nephews were there, and Mr.
W. Buck. My son was also there, and my daughter at Girton. I
think we had about twenty from Girton, and the same number from
Newnham, and Miss Hughes brought about twelve from the Training
College. Miss Buss and I each took down a party, and there were
plenty of men from the various colleges.
“I well remember the interest taken by Miss Buss in the
arrangements, and her distress because Girton and Newnham would
not extend the time for their students, who were obliged to
leave us at 10.30, which, of course, broke up our party, since
we were left with fifty men to ten girls, as Miss Hughes took
hers away when the other colleges went.”
There is a little note from Miss Buss in reference to this party, in
which she says—
“I find I have made a mistake in the date; February 25 _is_ in
Lent. In any case, the dance cannot be managed before Easter.
“Have you seen _Punch_? There is a small young lady who, when
accused by her mother of being ‘stupid,’ says, ‘No, I am only
inattentive!’ Let me hope my mistake was like the child’s!”
Mrs. Hill, who knew the Cambridge life well, says of it—
“She seemed most in her element, so to say, when she was at
Cambridge. I went with her ten or twelve times, and she was
always most anxious that her young people should have the best
time possible. If necessary, she would herself chaperon us to
breakfast, lunch, tea, coffee, in the Undergraduate’s rooms, and
(what added to the pleasure) she enjoyed going. Twice she gave a
dance, when she made a delightful hostess.”
It is also in reference to this phase of her life that Mrs. Bryant gives
this pretty picture of Miss Buss—
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