Frances Mary Buss and her work for educationRidley, Annie E.
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Frances Mary Buss and her work for education
Ridley, Annie E.
Buss, Frances Mary, 1827-1894
Her intensity of vital power kept her in touch with all young life. The
strong love of little children, which was one of her most marked
characteristics, was only the lovely blossoming of this vigorous growth;
nothing refreshed her more, when she was tired of work, or worn with
worries, than to have a “baby-show” of her nephews and nieces in their
day, and then of their children and the children of old pupils. She
liked just a few at a time, so that she might thoroughly enjoy them,
when she would herself get out toys from her stores, watching the play
while she and the mothers told stories of child wit and wisdom. One of
her very latest pleasures in life was the visit of a little new
namesake—a tiny “Frances Mary,” who will rejoice in the name though she
can have no memory of the kind face that brightened at the sight of her
baby ways—and one of her last quite coherent remarks was an inquiry for
“little curly-head,” as she called her nephew’s little son.
Here is a characteristic little story told by Mrs. Pierson—
“At the house of an old friend the other day I met a young
married lady with her baby. We were talking of Miss Buss, and
she said, ‘I only saw her once, when I was five years old, but I
have never forgotten her. She saved me from a cruel nurse who
ran away from me, and hid in the coal-yards near Chalk Farm
Station, while I cried because I was lost. A lady came by and
took my hand and comforted me and asked me where I lived. “Near
some mountains—red mountains,” I said, and her quick perception
divined that I meant some new houses being built near Primrose
Hill. She took me in the direction of Oppidan’s Road, where I
soon recognized my home; and, after her interview with my
mother, I need not say the nurse had to leave.’”
It is delightful to read Miss Buss’ holiday letters about the children,
who were often with their aunt while their parents went for rest and
change. While the world was standing in awe of the “eminent
educationalist” she was inditing sweet letters full of babytalk, of wise
counsel hid in nonsense, or of the affection of which her heart was so
full—
“1865.
“MY DEAR LITTLE MOTHER,
“Oh! what a boy is ours! to talk about ‘jolly’! Naughty
little monkey! We want a three-year old, not a grown-up boy.
Kiss him thousands of times for his loving Arnie, whose heart
goes out to him twenty times a day at least. She pictures to
herself, over and over again, the sweet little shy face on the
pier, and her boy waiting to throw himself into her arms when
she lands.
“I went last night to see Léonie, more especially to get a kiss
of Nina.”
“Stockholm, August 30, 1871.
“MY DEAR LITTLE MOTHER,
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