Frances Mary Buss and her work for educationRidley, Annie E.
History
Frances Mary Buss and her work for education
Ridley, Annie E.
Buss, Frances Mary, 1827-1894
She had already suffered from frequent attacks of influenza of a more or
less serious character, leaving behind them more and more weakness. The
first attack dated from the winter of 1889–90, when we were all in Rome
together. I had suffered from what seemed a sudden sharp cold, but was
nearly well when Miss Buss and her party arrived in Rome on Christmas
Eve. Christmas Day was very wet, and as my room was large and airy all
assembled there for afternoon tea and talk, Miss Buss being full of fun
and interest. But after a few days she and several others developed the
same kind of cold, which, even then, we never identified with the
mysterious disease of which every one heard so much that year. But for
us both it proved the beginning of a series of attacks extending through
the next four years. More than once when she was at the worst, I was too
ill even to be told of it till the danger had passed. This was the case
in the autumn of 1893, and I had been suffering during the summer, and
able to see her only when she came to visit me.
It was during this summer that she finally moved from Myra Lodge to No.
87, next door, leaving the boarders with Miss Edwards. The door of
communication was still left, that Miss Buss might see her friends and
the girls when she felt able. She had her own companion, Miss Newman,
and, later, Miss Millner; but Miss Edwards, having been so many years
with her, still went often to see her. There seemed every prospect of
years of rest and ease, amid a circle which could profit by her
experience and wisdom.
There were all the inevitable delays, in getting into the new house,
even though the workmen worked with all their hearts for an employer who
took very special care of their creature comforts, and made them wish
“for more like her.” She was not accustomed to summer in London, and the
consequence of it all was the very serious attack, already mentioned, in
the autumn. She recovered, however, with something of the rapidity of
the experience in the spring, and was able to go to Bournemouth, and
afterwards to spend Christmas at her cottage at Epping.
When my sister and I returned from Italy, in May, 1894, we were very
much grieved to see the change in our friend. She looked many years
older, and was quite unfit for any sort of exertion. It was surprising
how easily she accepted the changed conditions, and, after her life of
so much activity, was quite content to be amused, finding special
pleasure in Miss Millner’s lovely little Persian kitten. It was very
touching to see her intense amusement in her subjection to her new
medical attendant, Dr. Cobbett, the successor to her old friend Dr.
Evershed. She even seemed to find a lively satisfaction in the discovery
of a will which could dominate her own.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account