Frances Mary Buss and her work for educationRidley, Annie E.
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Frances Mary Buss and her work for education
Ridley, Annie E.
Buss, Frances Mary, 1827-1894
The second letter is also from one of the madcap order—a wilful,
high-spirited bit of mischief, fascinating in her pranks, but often
enough a source of real anxiety to her teachers, and even to the
dignified head herself, known to this child only when almost worn out
with the long strain of school-life and of her heavy public work. But
here are words as straight from the child’s heart as from that of the
woman who could count back through nearly fifty years of friendship—
“Jan. 31, 1895.
“DEAR MISS EDWARDS,
“There is so much I want to say, but I do not know how to
say it. This distance is so awful.
“I think it is because I cannot realize that I shall never see
Miss Buss again. If I were near I could realize it better; it
seems more like some fearful dream to me.
“I wish I was near you to tell you how deeply I sympathize and
share in the sorrow that I know the loss of so kind and true a
friend must be to you.
“And how many hundreds of girls will feel the same!
“All the world over there will be hearts aching to think that
they will never see Miss Buss again.
“I can but judge others by myself, and I know that it was not
till I had left school, and had been out here some time, that I
realized more fully what a great blessing had been mine that I
had been allowed to know Miss Buss; that, while I was at the age
when girls most need loving, firm guidance, I should have had
_Her_ for a kind teacher and friend. It will always be to me one
of the best and happiest remembrances of my life, for I truly
feel it a great honour bestowed on me.”
There will always be the two kinds of girl—the one who is content with
the life of the present moment, and the one who “looks before and
after,” to whom the present moment is only a fixed point between past
and future. In speaking for herself, one of the first kind speaks for
many more, as she naïvely says, “I fancy we were too much occupied with
ourselves to think much about Miss Buss while we were at school!” The
second class speak for themselves in every variety of intensity, but all
to the same purpose: “No one can ever know what she was to me. All that
I am, and all that I have, I owe to her influence or to her help!” Over
and over comes the same cry, in which the blank of present loss
foretells the future loneliness bereft of the strength and comfort of
the past.
From one of the younger pupils we have again the growing sense of what
she had less kindly felt at the moment—
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