Frances Mary Buss and her work for educationRidley, Annie E.
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Frances Mary Buss and her work for education
Ridley, Annie E.
Buss, Frances Mary, 1827-1894
“I could fill a volume with all dear Miss Buss has enabled me to
be, to do and to suffer, and with what she has been to me
through all—and _not to me only_, for all the girls of my time
worshipped her, and she never of _her_ own accord loses touch
with an old pupil. But what I have said will doubtless suffice
for your purpose.”
A large volume might indeed be filled with “memories”—extending from
those early days till a year ago—of the kindness and sympathy ever
flowing out from that time to this. It seemed to me very striking when
the same post brought two letters—one dating back to 1850, the other
only to 1890—and, spite of the forty years between, telling just the
same story.
The one shows us the young teacher standing at the parlour door, “with a
kiss for each pupil at the end of the day’s work,” with a “grace of
manner and gentle voice” deeply impressing the child to whom for
forty-four years afterwards she became “ever a most kind and constant
friend, ever ready with sympathy.”
Then comes a picture of a wild, daring girl, dashing to the end of the
long garden and back in the rain, on her return to be called into the
parlour to account for herself. Of the reproof she adds—
“I remember little but its gentleness, and the kind arm round me
while it was being given; but, at the end, I was required to
promise never to do anything because I was dared to do it. After
that Miss Buss led me by a silken thread all through my
school-days, though the other teachers often found me headstrong
and troublesome.”
There is an account of how Miss Buss ended a standing feud between the
girl and “Mademoiselle” by the exaction of a promise from the reluctant
pupil that she would set herself to win the French prize. And finally
comes the graver side of this happy relation—
“When at the age of thirteen I left school to go abroad, Miss
Buss still continued her kindness, writing to me while I was
away, and giving me kind welcome on my return. To see her again
was always my first thought after the home-greeting.
“After my first trouble she wrote thus to me—
“‘I feel much for you, dear E——. Your experience of life is
beginning early, and so is your discipline. Discipline, though
wholesome, is never pleasant. And then, when one is young, one’s
feelings are so acute. I remember what I went through at your
age, and under similar circumstances. Nevertheless, my greater
experience than yours, poor child, makes me confess that
“tribulation worketh patience.” Amidst all your trials, dear
E——, always trust me. I do not intend to let a light thing come
between me and “auld lang syne” folks.’”
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