Free Opinions, Freely Expressed on Certain Phases of Modern Social Life and ConductCorelli, Marie
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Free Opinions, Freely Expressed on Certain Phases of Modern Social Life and Conduct
Corelli, Marie
English essays -- 20th century; Great Britain -- Social life and customs -- 20th century
With all its folly, sweetness, piteousness and pathos, “imaginary” love
is the keynote of Art,--its fool-musings take shape in exquisite verse,
in tales of romance and adventure, in pictures that bring the nations
together to stand and marvel, in music that makes the strong man weep.
It is the most supersensual of all delicate sensations,--as fine as a
hair, as easily destroyed as a gnat’s wing!--a rough touch will wound
it,--a coarse word will kill it,--the sneer of the Realist shuts it in
a coffin of lead and sinks it fathoms deep in the waters of despair.
Strange and cruel as the fact may seem, Marriage appears to put an end
to it altogether.
Think you, if Laura had been Petrarch’s wife
He would have written sonnets to her all his life?
inquires Byron. He certainly would not. The “imaginary” love of
Petrarch was the source of his poetic inspiration; if he had ever
dragged it down to the level of the commonplace Actual, he would have
killed his Muse. In a similar way the love of Dante for Beatrice was
of the “imaginary” quality. Those who read the “Vita Nuova” will
scarcely fail to see how the great poet hugs his love-fancies and
feeds himself with delicious extravagances in the way of idealized
and sublimated soul-passion. He dissects every fine hair of a stray
emotion, and writes a sonnet on every passing heart-beat. Dante’s wife
never became so transfigured in her husband’s love. Why? Alas, who can
say! No reason can be given save that perchance “familiarity breeds
contempt,” and that the Unattainable seems always more beautiful than
the Attained. The delight of possession would appear to be as brief as
the flowering of a rose. Lovers are in haste to wed,--but when the knot
is once irrevocably tied, in nine cases out of ten they wish it could
be untied again. They no longer imagine “imaginary” love! The glamour
is gone. Illusions are all over. The woman is no longer the removed,
the fair, the chaste, the unreachable,--the man ceases to be the proud,
the strong hero endowed with the attributes of the gods. “Imaginary”
love then resolves itself into one of two things,--a firm, every-day,
close and tender _friendship_, or else a sick disappointment, often
ending in utter disgust. But the divine emotion of “imaginary” love
has died,--the Soul is no longer enamoured of its Ideal--and the
delicate psychic passion which inspires the poet, the painter, the
musician, turns at once to fresh objects of admiration and pursuit. For
it is never exhausted,--unlike any purely earthly sense it knows no
satiety. Deceived in one direction, it dies in another. Dissatisfied
with worldly things, it extends its longing heavenwards,--there at
least it shall find what it seeks,--not now, but hereafter! Age does
not blunt this fine emotion, for, as may often be remarked with some
beautiful souls in the decline of bodily life, the resigning of earthly
enjoyments gives them no pain,--and the sweet placidity of expectation,
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