Madame Swetchine's life was chiefly spent in Paris, where the French
language, already long before, in St. Petersburg, grown easy and
tripping on her tongue, became to her a second, perhaps more familiar,
vernacular. She was a high-born, high-bred, refined, and elegant woman
of the world--woman in the world we should rather say, for, in the
truest sense, _of_ it she never was--who held brilliant,
choicely-frequented _salons_, but who, without ostentation and without
affectation, would go from her oratory, which indeed seems to have been
a private "chapel," in the full ecclesiastic sense of that word, to her
drawing-room; who had even, as Sainte-Beuve indulgently, but with
something of his inseparable irony, intimates, the effect of vibrating
from the one to the other in the course of the same evening. Madame
Swetchine was married young very unequally to a man twenty-five years
her senior; but she set the edifying example of half a century's wifely
devotion to that husband whom, at the wish of her father, well beloved,
she had dutifully accepted in place of a noble young suitor, the choice
of her own affections.
Two volumes--both of "Thoughts," though one of them bears the title
"Airelles"--shut up within themselves the fragrance that was Madame
Swetchine. We cull a few specimens:
Often one is prophet for others only because one is historian for
one's self.
The chains which bind us the closest are those which weigh on us the
least.
The best of lessons for many persons would be to listen at key-holes;
it is a pity for their sake that this is not honorable.
Go always beyond designated duties, and remain within permitted
pleasures.
Upon the whole, there is in life only what we put there.
I love knowledge; I love intellect; I love faith--simple faith--yet
more, I love God's shadow better than man's light.
He who has ceased to enjoy his friend's superiority has ceased to love
him.
Since there must be chimeras, why is not perfection the chimera of all
men?
"Woman is in some sort divine," said the ancient German. "Woman," says
the follower of Mahomet, "is an amiable creature who only needs a
cage." "Woman," says the European, "is a being nearly our equal in
intelligence, and perhaps our superior in fidelity." Everywhere
something detracted from our dignity!
No two persons ever read the same book or saw the same picture.
Strength alone knows conflict. Weakness is below even defeat, and is
born vanquished.
We are rich only through what we give, and poor only through what we
refuse.
Madame Swetchine was a woman of wealth and of leisure so-called; but it
may be doubted whether any poor woman in Paris worked harder. She
carried with her when she went hence what, through all her conscientious
activity, outward and inward, she had in her own being become; and she
found besides that ample further reward, unknown, which she had thus
grown capable of receiving.
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