Frenchwomen of all classes live much more in their bedrooms than
Englishwomen do. Of a morning they study, read, work there, give orders
to their servants, write letters. These bedrooms are generally very
pleasant places, with dressing-rooms off, and clothes closets, so that
intimate friends of either sex may pass in and out without indiscretion
or awkwardness. The bed itself is a handsome piece of furniture, with
curtains to match the big bed-cover, which hides every atom of white,
and sometimes, with the pillows in the middle and silk or satin-covered
bolster at either end under this covering, it resembles those imposing
mediæval couches we see in the Cluny Museum. On the other hand, the
sexes in family life are more apart than in England. They meet at
table, but their amusements, interests, and work are accepted as widely
different. The relations of husband and wife are based upon a more
intelligent understanding than elsewhere; and those of parent and child
are the nearest approach to perfection with which I am acquainted, if
only a higher moral training were added to the tenderness and incessant
care, for the French wife and mother is undoubtedly the best of her
kind; and if her mate is less worthy, at least he is a kinder, more
considerate, and courteous mate than his Anglo-Saxon brother. His sins,
when he is volatile and bad, run to the _cabinet particulier_ or the
_foyer_ of fast theatres, while the other flies to perdition on the fumes
of alcohol, and sins against home in public bars, upon race-courses, in
the hostels of fugitive dalliance. The Frenchman will tell you that he
is the better man of the two, for he brings a little sentiment into his
infidelities, while the Anglo-Saxon, when he turns his back upon home and
the domestic virtues, is brutal and gross.
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