This brings me to the consideration of woman’s _rôle_ in France. The
foreigner who only judges that _rôle_ from the novels he reads, mostly
pornographic, and from the drama, increasingly gross and immoral, will
be all at sea as regards the part woman plays in French life. He will
conceive her first playing the hypocrite up to the time of marriage, and
then living without restraint ever afterwards. He will wonder what time
is left her for domestic duties, and judge her social duties merely as
convenient stages along the downward path. If he enjoys that sort of
thing, she will amuse and interest him, but he will underestimate her
position in reality. For no one plays a more important _rôle_ in the
ranks of humanity than the Frenchwoman. She it is who rules the home,
and in what an admirable way she rules it can never be sufficiently
extolled. She it is who trains, fashions, guides man in every step of his
career, from his boyhood into his first love-affair, and makes of him
the courteous and indulgent creature he proves in matrimony. As mother,
aunt, sister, wife, and daughter, the Frenchman relies on his womankind
throughout his whole career. She is, in the best and fullest sense of
the word, his helpmeet; assists him in his business, enjoys his entire
confidence, because he knows so well that she is the better part of the
institution, bears more than half of his troubles. As a mother, she knows
how to efface herself, and in acting to her sons as their best friend
and confidant, keeps her sovereignty stable. It is because she is such
a sensible and dignified ruler, indulgent where indulgence is needful,
that the men around her rarely feel the impulse to break from her sway.
She moulds the politicians, takes the poets and novelists by the hand,
holds the social sceptre with ease and charm, pulls the academical
wire-strings, aids youth to success and triumph, names the fashion in
literature,—and here she does less wisely and less well,—makes and mars
reputations, is responsible for more of the commercial prosperity of
the land than her mate, and brought, of her own thrift and labour, a
bigger share to the millions that went to Germany than he. An England
without her women could be conceived as still standing, so effaced is
their _rôle_; but France may almost be said to exist by hers. If the
women would only consent to go to the colonies, the French would, I am
convinced, turn out capital colonists.
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CHAPTER VIII
PEASANT AND ARTISAN
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