American essays -- 19th century; Short stories, American
I maintain it: all the heroism of the present day is to be found among
women. I say it to your beards. I am sick of such remarks as these:
“Poor fellow! he was unfortunate in business, and so he took to
drinking;” or--“poor fellow! he had a bad wife, and lost all heart.”
What does a _woman_ do who is unfortunate in business, I would like to
know? Why--she tries again, of course, and keeps on trying to the end of
the chapter, notwithstanding the pitiful remuneration man bestows upon
her labor, notwithstanding his oft-repeated attempts to cheat her out of
it when she has earned it! What does a woman do, who has a bad,
improvident husband? Works all the harder, to be sure, to make up his
deficiencies to her household; works day and night; smiles when her
heart and back are both breaking; speaks hopeful words when her very
soul is dying within her; denies herself the needed morsel to increase
her children’s portion, and crushed neither by the iron gripe of
poverty, nor allured by the Judas-smile of temptation, hopefully puts
her trust in Him who feedeth the sparrows.
She “the weaker sex?” Out on your pusillanimous manhood! “Took to
drinking because he was unhappy!” Bless--his--big--Spartan--soul! How I
admire him! Couldn’t live a minute without he had every thing to his
mind; never had the slightest idea of walking round an obstacle, or
jumping over it; never practiced that sort of philosophical
gymnastics--couldn’t grit his teeth at fate, and defy it to do its
worst, because they chattered so;--poor fellow! Wanted buttered toast,
and had to eat dry bread; liked “2.40,” and had to go a-foot; fond of
wine, and had to drink Croton; couldn’t smoke, though his stove-pipe
did; rushed out of the world, and left his wife and children to battle
with the fate that his coward soul was afraid to meet. Brave,
magnanimous fellow!
Again--we are constantly hearing that the extravagance of women debars
young men from the bliss of matrimony. Poor things! they can’t select a
wife _from out_ the frivolous circle of fashion; there are no refined,
well-educated, lady-like, practical girls and women, whom any man, with
a man’s soul, might be proud to call wife, nobly struggling for an
honest maintenance as writers, governesses, teachers, semptresses, and
milliners. They never read such an advertisement as this in the papers:
“Wanted, by a young girl, a situation as governess. She can teach
the English branches, French and Italian; and is willing to accept
a small remuneration, to secure a respectable home.”
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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