Ralphe Goodynge, or Gooding, one of the oldest inhabitants of
Ipswich, distantly connected with the family of De Freston on the
female side, soon after the purchase of Freston, represented the
borough of Ipswich, in conjunction with John Sparrowe. It was owing
to his liberality that the Tower itself remained one of the
pleasantest features of the Orwell, and the place of happy resort for
many a wedding party.
In his day it became a sort of privilege for the townsmen of Ipswich
to take a marriage trip to Freston Tower. Its pleasant distance from
the town, the lovely park in which it then stood, and the still
memorable record of the Lady Ellen, and her faithful Latimer, made
'Latimer's Tower,' a bye-word for conjugal felicity. The wonder is,
that it should ever have lost this celebrity.
Whether it was that, in the lapse of years, the park became arable
land, and lost the traces of hereditary grandeur, or that other
possessors succeeded, who did not encourage this right of the free
burgesses, and their espousals, the old distich was forgotten which
said:
'No burgess on his wedding-day,
Which falls in whitethorn merry May,
Shall happy be in house or bower,
Who does not visit Freston Tower.'
For many years, a venerable old couple of the name of Sage, who had
been attached to the family of the Latimers, resided in the lower
compartment of the Tower, and with the assistance of their two
daughters kept the rooms in such order, that it was said:
'The Sages differ in their ages,
But all our hearts with love engage;
We pay the Sages marriage wages,
That we in age may be like Sage.
It was to the house of this old couple, that Latimer and Ellen went
after they had conveyed the estate to Mr. Ralphe Goodynge, and paid
their last visit to the tower of love. Memory, fresh, clear, and
hallowed, can never forget the spot where the enjoyment of that sweet
thought, the making another happy, was first imbibed. Whatever cares
may arise, whatever troubles may have come upon us, and however much
the realities of this dull world, and its daily ploddings, may have
made us creatures of circumstances, we still remember, with a
holiness never to be effaced, the spot of our first love.
Let stoics say what they will, or mortals without natural affection
break every trace of love, every honest man, who had a heart of
natural affection in his youth, cannot fail to recal, with
satisfaction, the remembrance of that spot where he first became
betrothed.
The soldier may have to visit foreign countries; the ambassador,
foreign courts; the lawyer, courts of law; the trader, foreign ports;
even the Missionary, foreign stations; the Bishop, distant sees; no
man, let him be called to whatever employment he may, and be
compelled therein to forsake the scenes of his early youth, can fail
sometimes to remember the associations of that day, when he first
ventured even to think of that partner, with whom he may have
afterwards passed the meridian of life.
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