And spiritual man has also discovered that the very breakdown of human
ties leads out to a larger and more permanent love. It is sooner or
later found that the most perfect love cannot utterly satisfy the heart
of man. All our human intercourse, blessed and helpful as it may be,
must be necessarily fragmentary and partial. A man must discover that
there is an infinite in him, which only the infinite can match and
supply. It is no disparagement of human friendship to admit this. It
remains a blessed fact that it is possible to meet devotion, which
makes us both humble and proud; humble at the sight of its noble
sacrifice, proud with a glad pride at its wondrous beauty. Man is
capable of the highest heights of love. But man can never take the
place of God, and without God life is shorn of its glory and divested
of its meaning.
So the human heart has ever craved for a relationship, deeper and more
lasting than any possible among men, undisturbed by change, unmenaced
by death, unbroken by fear, unclouded by doubt. The limitations and
losses of earthly friendship are meant to drive us to the higher
friendship. Life is an education in love, but the education is not
complete till we learn the love of the eternal. Ordinary friendship
has done its work when the limits of friendship are reached, when
through the discipline of love we are led into a larger love, when a
door is opened out to a higher life. The sickness of heart which is
the lot of all, the loneliness which not even the voice of a friend can
dispel, the grief which seems to stop the pulse of life itself, find
their final meaning in this compulsion toward the divine. We are
sometimes driven out not knowing whither we go, not knowing the purpose
of it; only knowing through sheer necessity that here we have no
abiding city, or home, or life, or love; and seeking a city, a home, a
life, a love, that hath foundations.
We have some training in the love of friends, as if only to prove to us
that without love we cannot live. All our intimacies are but broken
lights of the love of God. They are methods of preparation for the
great communion. In so far even that our earthly friendships are helps
to life, it is because they are shot through with the spiritual, and
they prepare us by their very deficiencies for something more
permanent. There have been implanted in man an instinct, and a need,
which make him discontented, till he find content in God. If at any
time we are forced to cease from man, whose breath is in his nostrils,
it is that we may reach out to the infinite Father, unchanging, the
same yesterday, to-day, and forever. This is the clamant, imperious
need of man.
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