"But the TRUE MOTHER yields herself uncomplainingly, yea, cheerfully,
to the wholesome privation, solitude, and self-denial allotted
her...... Was she fond of travelling, of visiting the wonderful in
Nature and in Art, of mingling in new and often-varying scenes? Now
she has found 'an abiding city,' and no allurements are strong enough
to tempt her thence. Had society charms for her, and in the social
circle and the festive throng were her chief delights? Now she stays
at home, and the gorgeous saloon and brilliant assemblage give place to
the nursery and the baby. Was she devoted to literary pursuits? Now
the library is seldom visited, the cherished studies are neglected, the
rattle and the doll are substituted for the pen. Her piano is silent,
while she chants softly and sweetly the soothing lullaby. Her dress
can last another season now, and the hat--oh, she does not care, if it
is not in the latest mode, for she has a baby to look after, and has no
time for herself. Even the ride and the walk are given up, perhaps too
often, with the excuse, 'Baby-tending is exercise enough for me.' Her
whole life is reversed."
The assumption is, that all this is just as it should be. The
thoughtless person may fancy that it is a pity; but it is not a pity.
This is a model mother and a model state of things. It is not simply to
be submitted to, not simply to be patiently borne; it is to be aspired
to as the noblest and holiest state.
That is the strychnine. You may counsel people to take joyfully the
spoiling of their goods, and comfort, encourage, and strengthen them by
so doing; but when you tell them that to be robbed and plundered is of
itself a priceless blessing, the highest stage of human development,
you do them harm; because, in general, falsehood is always harmful, and
because, in particular, so far as you influence them at all, you
prevent them from taking measures to stop the wrong-doing. You ought
to counsel them to bear with Christian resignation what they cannot
help; but you ought with equal fervor to counsel them to look around
and see if there are not many things which they can help, and if there
are, by all means to help them. What is inevitable comes to us from
God, no matter how many hands it passes through; but submission to
unnecessary evils is cowardice or laziness; and extolling of the evil
as good is sheer ignorance, or perversity, or servility. Even the ills
that must be borne, should be borne under protest, lest patience
degenerate into slavery. Christian character is never formed by
acquiescence in, or apotheosis of wrong.
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