Spaniards.
[Sidenote: VENTA EATING.]
They are very pressing in their invitations whenever any eating is going
on. No Spaniard or Spaniards, however humble their class or fare, ever
allow any one to come near or pass them when eating, without inviting
him to partake. “_Guste usted comer?_” “Will your grace be pleased to
dine?” No traveller should ever omit to go through this courtesy
whenever any Spaniards, high or low, approach him when at any meal,
especially if taking it out of doors, which often happens in these
journeyings; nor is it altogether an empty form; all classes consider it
a compliment if a stranger, and especially an Englishman, will
condescend to share their dinner. In the smaller towns, those invited by
English will often partake, even the better classes, and who have
already dined; they think it civil to accept, and rude to refuse the
invitation, and have no objection to eating any given _good_ thing,
which is the exception to their ordinary frugal habits: all this is
quite Arabian. The Spaniards seldom accept the invitation at once; they
expect to be urged by an obsequious host, in order to appear to do a
gentle violence to their stomachs by eating to oblige _him_. The angels
declined Lot’s offered hospitalities until they were “pressed
_greatly_.” Travellers in Spain must not forget this still existing
Oriental trait; for if they do not greatly press their offer, they are
understood as meaning it to be a mere empty compliment. We have known
Spaniards who have called with an intention of staying dinner, go away,
because this ceremony was not gone through according to their
punctilious notions, to which our off-hand manners are diametrically
opposed. Hospitality in a hungry inn-less land becomes, as in the East,
a sacred duty; if a man eats all the provender by himself, he cannot
expect to have many friends. Generally speaking, the offer is not
accepted; it is always declined with the same courtesy which prompts the
invitation. “_Muchas gracias, buen provecho le haga á usted_,” “Many
thanks--much good may it do your grace,” an answer which is analogous to
the _prosit_ of Italian peasants after eating or sneezing. These
customs, both of inviting and declining, tally exactly, and even to the
expressions used among the Arabs to this day. Every passer-by is invited
by Orientals--“_Bismillah ya seedee_,” which means both a grace and
invitation--“In the name of God, sir, (_i.e._) will you dine with us?”
or “_Tafud’-dal_,” “Do me the favour to partake of this repast.” Those
who decline reply, “_Heneê an_,” “May it benefit.”
[Sidenote: AN EVENING AT A VENTA.]
[Sidenote: HONESTY AND ANTIQUITY IN A VENTA.]
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