Getting ready to be a mother : $b a little book of information and advice for the young woman who is looking forward to motherhoodVan Blarcom, Carolyn Conant
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Getting ready to be a mother : $b a little book of information and advice for the young woman who is looking forward to motherhood
Van Blarcom, Carolyn Conant
Infants -- Care; Obstetrics; Pregnancy
It is safe to say that if the doctor and the nurse and the baby’s mother
all want him to nurse at the breast, and all do everything in their
power to make this possible, they will almost invariably succeed. This
assertion can scarcely be made too positively and we should never lose
sight of the fact that if the baby is not breast-fed he is being
defrauded, and in the vast majority of cases, because of insufficient
effort on the part of those who are caring for him.
Practically the only conditions which doctors in general now recognize
as sufficient reason for the mother’s not nursing her baby are retracted
nipples, tuberculosis, convulsions, severe heart or kidney trouble,
certain acute infectious diseases such as typhoid fever, and the state
of pregnancy.
When none of these conditions exist, a favorable frame of mind and a
state of good nutrition are the two indispensable factors in
establishing breast feeding and maintaining the production of a
satisfactory quantity and quality of breast milk. These factors in turn
are both affected by the mother’s general mode of living.
Women with happy, cheerful dispositions usually nurse their babies
satisfactorily, while those who worry and fret are likely to have an
insufficient supply of milk or milk of a poor quality. In addition to
this sustained influence exerted by the nursing mother’s state of mind
it is well to remember that the quality of milk that has been entirely
satisfactory may be seriously injured, for the time being, by a fit of
temper, fright, grief, anxiety or any marked emotional disturbance.
Actual poisons seem to be created as a result of these emotions and they
may affect the baby so unfavorably as to make it necessary to give him
artificial food, temporarily, and empty the breasts by pumping or
stripping before he begins to nurse again.
I realize that it is not easy entirely to reorganize your life and
assume new and exacting duties, while recovering from an experience
resembling an illness in some of its effects, and still remain calm,
undiscouraged and perpetually cheerful. But each tiny victory that you
accomplish in your attempt to achieve this end will bring such
satisfaction that you will not count the cost. And the incomparable,
always deepening happiness of watching your very own baby grow lovelier
and sturdier, day by day, because of the things that you, and no one
else, are doing, will make you deny, even to yourself, that anything you
do is hard. Particularly will this be true if you repeatedly remind
yourself that the satisfactorily breast-fed baby is much more likely to
live through the difficult first year than is the bottle-fed baby, and
also is much less susceptible to disease and infection.
We shall consider, for a moment, the more important details of the
routine care that you should give yourself, for the baby’s sake, and
then we shall be ready for the pleasantest task of all—the actual care
of the baby himself.
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