Godey's Lady's Book, Vol. 48, No. XVIII, April, 1854Various
General
Godey's Lady's Book, Vol. 48, No. XVIII, April, 1854
Various
Fashion -- 19th century -- Periodicals; United States -- Social life and customs -- 19th century -- Periodicals; Women's periodicals, American
Of course, to all well-ordered governments there must be one head, the
centre of all action; but inferior officers can ofttimes take the whole
burden of petty detail. The silver, the mending, the wash, must be seen
to, and here it might be a daughter's pleasant duty to see her mother's
instructions faithfully obeyed. How much better this, than adding to the
general discomfort and disorderly careless habits, and inconsideration or
rudeness to the servants.
Then as regards her brothers--the daughter of the household has much to
think of: to be considerate for their comfort, to respect their feelings,
to care for their amusement, to enter into their plans and pursuits. How
many a brother is driven to seek idle, expensive, and too often vicious
company from the lack of such sympathy at home! And yet one so often
hears--"brothers are so troublesome"--or, "we can't practice just to play
for a brother"--or, "the boys have their company, and I have mine." The
taste may not always be congenial, but good feeling and gentle manners
will accomplish far more than a sarcastic repulse.
Thus, in course of time, the stepping-stones safely passed, the girl
becomes the young wife--housekeeper--mother--fitted for the duties of her
station, and therefore contented with it, finding nothing harsh or irksome
in domestic routine, and satisfied with the pleasures and enjoyments of
home. Far more likely to do so than she who leads a careless, idle life as
a girl--to become a fretful, discontented wife, or neglectful mother.
Our Daily Paths! with thorns or flow'rs
We can at will bestrew them;
What bliss would gild the passing hours,
If we but rightly knew them!
The way of life is rough at best,
But briers yield the roses,
So that which leads to joy and rest
The hardest path discloses.
The weeds that oft we cast away,
Their simple beauty scorning,
Would form a wreath of purest ray
And prove the best adorning.
So in our daily paths, 'twere well
To call each gift a treasure,
However slight, where love can dwell
With life-renewing pleasure!
* * * * *
LACES AND EMBROIDERIES.
WE promised, in speaking of new caps, a paragraph in our fashion chat on
laces; but, as that has its own material, in discussing the merits of
shapes and styles, we lay our laces upon the centre-table instead.
We have now in preparation some very new and tasteful designs for
chemisettes, to be worn in mourning, every one understanding that
embroideries are laid aside with a black dress. For the strictest styles,
plain linen, cambric, and Swiss muslin are worn; but when silks or fringed
dresses are put on, fluted ruffles, edged with plain narrow lace, on
collars and open sleeves, are not out of taste, or edges of needle-work in
scallops and points.
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