Good-bye to all that : $b An autobiographyGraves, Robert
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Good-bye to all that : $b An autobiography
Graves, Robert
Authors, English -- 20th century -- Biography; Graves, Robert, 1895-1985; World War, 1914-1918 -- Personal narratives, British
I came to know only two of my students fairly well; one was a Greek,
the other a Turk. The Turk was an intelligent, good-natured young
man, perhaps twenty years old. He was very rich, and had a motor-car
in which he twice took me for a drive to the Pyramids. He talked both
French and English fluently, being about the only one (except for
twelve who had attended a French Jesuit college) who could do so. He
told me one day that he would not be able to attend my next lecture as
he was going to be married. I asked him whether this was the first or
second part of the ceremony; he said it was the first. When he returned
he told me that he had not yet been allowed to see the face of his
wife, because her family was orthodox; he would only see it at the
second ceremony. But his sister had been at school with her and said
that she was pretty and a good sort; and her father was a friend of
his father’s. Later, the second ceremony took place, and he confessed
himself perfectly satisfied. I learned that it seldom happened that
when the veil was lifted the bridegroom refused the bride, though he
had the right to do so; she had a similar right. Usually the
couple contrived to meet before even the first ceremony, The girl
would slip the man a note saying: ‘I shall be at Maison Cicurel at the
hat-counter at three-thirty to-morrow I afternoon if you want to see
me. It will be quite in order for me to lift my veil to try on a hat.
You will recognize me by my purple parasol.’
I inquired about the rights of Mohammedan women in Egypt. Apparently
divorce was simple; the man only had to say in the presence of a
witness: ‘I divorce you, I divorce you, I divorce you,’ and she was
divorced. On the other hand she was entitled to take her original
dowry back with her, with the interest that had accrued on it during
her married life. Dowries were always heavy and divorces comparatively
rare. It was considered very low-class to have more than one wife;
that was a fellaheen habit. I was told a story of an Egyptian who
was angry with his wife one morning because the breakfast-coffee was
badly made. He shouted out: ‘I divorce you, I divorce you, I divorce
you.’ ‘Oh, my dear,’ she said, ‘now you’ve done it. The servants have
heard what you said. I must go back to my father with my ten thousand
pounds and my sixty camels.’ He apologized for his hasty temper. ‘We
must be remarried,’ he said, ‘as soon as possible.’ She reminded him
that the law prevented them from marrying again unless there were an
intermediate marriage. So he called in a very old man who was watering
the lawn and ordered him to marry her. He was to understand that it
was a marriage of form only. So the gardener married the woman and,
immediately after the ceremony, returned to his watering-pot. Two days
later the woman died, and the gardener inherited the money and the
camels.
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