Graham's Magazine, Vol. XIX, No. 3, September 1841Various
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Graham's Magazine, Vol. XIX, No. 3, September 1841
Various
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“I observe a difference in the usages _de mœurs_ at Paris, and
in those of London, of which an ignorance might lead to give
offence. In England, a lady is expected to bow to a gentleman
before he presumes to do so to her, thus leaving her the choice
of acknowledging his acquaintance, or not; but in France it is
otherwise, for a man takes off his hat to every woman whom he
has ever met in society, although he does not address her,
unless she encourages him to do so.
“In Paris, if two men are walking or riding together, and one of
them bows to a lady of his acquaintance, the other also takes
off his hat, as a mark of respect to the lady known to his
friend, although he is not acquainted with her. The mode of
salutation is also much more deferential towards women in France
than in England. The hat is held a second longer off the head,
the bow is lower, and the smile of recognition is more
_aimable_, by which I mean, that it is meant to display the
pleasure experienced by the meeting.
“It is true that the really well bred Englishmen are not to be
surpassed in good manners by those of any other country; but all
are not such; and I have seen instances of men in London
acknowledging the presence of ladies, by merely touching,
instead of taking off, their hats when bowing to them; and
though I accounted for this solecism in good breeding by the
belief that it proceeded from the persons practising it wearing
wigs, I discovered that there was not even so good an excuse as
the fear of deranging them, and that their incivility proceeded
from ignorance or _nonchalance_, while the glum countenance of
him who bowed betrayed rather a regret for the necessity of
touching his beaver, than a pleasure at meeting her for whom the
salute was intended.”
The French phrases with which the book is interspersed have not been
read, in proof, with sufficient care, and many awkward blunders occur.
At page 100, vol. I, for example, we have “_Le jeu né vaut pas la
chandelle_,” and at page 234, of the same volume, “_Que voulezvous,
sire-chacun a son vingt Mars?_”
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