Graham's Magazine, Vol. XLI, No. 2, August 1852Various
General
Graham's Magazine, Vol. XLI, No. 2, August 1852
Various
Literature -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals
The pioneers cared little for scented notes of invitation, embossed
cards, or emblematic turtle-doves—no more than for the unsubstantial
trickeries which now make up a wedding feast. As the day approached,
though yet perhaps a week remained, the children of the bride’s family
were sent forth to “warn the neighbors in,” or, not unfrequently, the
parties took advantage of some other merry-making, to announce the
auspicious event, and deliver invitations; and, without other formality,
all who lived within a day’s ride of the place, considered themselves
invited, and arranged their affairs accordingly. Some inconvenience to
the host and hostess might result from the uncertainty about the number
of their guests; but the art of providing mathematically for the precise
number expected, was not then cultivated; if there was _enough_, it was
not material how much _more_ there might be—for that meanness which
combines a sordid calculation with the rites of hospitality, was not one
of the pioneer’s vices. Preparation was made to receive all who were
near enough to reach the place—a profusion of substantial things, such
as hearty men and natural women liked, adorned the rude tables; and no
grand flourishes of white-aproned waiters, no sham dignity of form or
ceremony, encumbered or oppressed the feast. And, though the early
backwoodsman might not be the most polished of hosts, yet, tried by the
standard of genuine hospitality, he was the most perfect of gentlemen.
Thomas Fielding was a true representative of his class; and those who
have been in the West will need no further description. For two weeks
before the appointed day, he had invited everybody he met to witness the
marriage of his daughter, and take part in the rejoicings; and by those
whom he saw, he had sent notice to others; so that at least a week
before the eventful tenth, everyone within twenty miles was not only
notified, but asked to attend. Preparations were then made upon a
corresponding scale; and fervent wishes were expressed that the weather
might be fine, that none might fail to come. One of the sons was sent
express to Kaskaskia for Jane’s wedding garments—for even in those
primitive days woman was true to the tastes of her sex. And, beside,
Jane had grown almost to womanhood in the precincts of the Old Dominion;
and, in her new home, was as well known for the superior neatness of her
dress, as for other advantages of mind and person.
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