Graham's Magazine, Vol. XXI, No. 4, October 1842Various
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Graham's Magazine, Vol. XXI, No. 4, October 1842
Various
Literature -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals
Coleridge has somewhere beautifully said, “the perfection of a woman’s
character is to be characterless.” A sentiment of such obvious propriety
would hardly seem to need a commentary, and yet no one of Coleridge’s
appears to be oftener misunderstood. A characterless woman is,
assuredly, any thing but an imbecile one. She must be one equal to all
contingencies, whose faculties or powers are developed by circumstances,
rather than by spontaneous action; and this implies the possession of
all that is peculiar to her sex, but all in harmonious adjustment.
A characterless woman is often confounded with one deficient in the
finest attributes of the sex, who is characterless indeed, but is so
from imbecility—if the phrase do not, of itself, involve a
contradiction; as if a creature, whose virtues were all negatives, could
be characterless! A woman, too feeble to grasp at thought, too vapid for
sentiment, too tame for mirth, too commonplace for enthusiasm, and too
weak for passion, may be the ideal of those incapable of appreciating
the higher characteristics of womanhood, but could never have been that
of him whom Wordsworth calls the “heaven-eyed creature;” of him who
conceived Christabel, and the sweet attaching Genevieve.
Such may do for the statue-like creations of Maria Edgeworth, and the
thousand and one other romance writers, who expect woman to move by
rule—who mistake dullness for goodness, and apathy for grace; but they
awaken in ourselves no emotions of sympathy, for the human heart can
respond only to _human_ emotions, and it at once goes forth to greet its
kindred impulses. Fielding’s Sophia is more lovable than Scott’s Rowena,
simply because one is a live, earnest woman, and the other designed to
be a very perfect one, and she turns out to be a very dull one.
Let Rebecca pass—the noble—the ideal—for, alas! human hearts are not
prepared for the love of such as these; they may excite esteem,
admiration, even passion, but love—the crowning boon of existence—may
not be theirs. They gather not the household gods about them—they enter
themselves into the holiest of holies, but they minister alone at the
altar. Their fate is that of the fabled bird, whose own intensity
kindled its funeral pyre. They have a mission to perform. They are
created not to enjoy but to suffer; aye, to suffer that human hearts may
be made wiser and holier; therefore do the pale stars keep vigil with
them, and therefore is the dew all night upon their heads, and their
locks wet with the drops of the morning.
A characterless woman! We feel she must be so, to be perfect as a woman.
But then she must have all the susceptibilities, all the sweet impulses,
all the weaknesses of her sex; she must have a woman’s thoughts, and a
woman’s utterance—her simplicity, her faith—and, beneath all, there
must dwell that womanly endurance—wondrous and holy in its
power—reserved for the day of trial.
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