Graham's Magazine Vol XXXII. No. 3. March 1848Various
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Graham's Magazine Vol XXXII. No. 3. March 1848
Various
Literature -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals
"I found them all wrong, my dear," she said, "no order, no regulation,
every thing at sixes and sevens; and as for the woman Biddy, she is
quite, quite incorrigible. I showed her a new way of preparing her
clothes for the wash, by which she could save a deal of labor; but all
in vain, she persisted most obstinately to follow the old troublesome
way. Then she confuses her work altogether in such a manner that I
never can tell at which stage of labor she has arrived; and when I put
them all _en traine_, and leave them a few instants, I find on my
return every thing as tangled as ever. Method is the soul of
housekeeping, Enna. You will never succeed without order. I fear you
are too easy and indulgent; although I have never kept a house, I know
exactly how it should be done. A place for every thing--every thing in
its place, as your grandpapa used to say. If you insist upon your
servants doing every thing at a certain hour, and in a certain way,
your affairs will go on like clock-work."
I could not but assent to all these truisms--for I felt
conscience-stricken. I knew I had always depended in all my
housekeeping emergencies too much on my "talent for improvising," as
Kate Wilson merrily entitles my readiness in a domestic tangle and
stand-still. I had been in the habit of letting things go on as easily
as possible, scrupulously avoiding domestic tempests, because they
deranged my nervous system; and if I found a servant would not do a
thing in my way, I would let her accomplish it in her own manner, and
at her own time--so that it was done, that was all I required. I felt
almost disheartened as the remarks of my precise aunt proved to me how
remiss I had been, and resolved in a very humble mood to reform. Bat
when Aunt Lina continued her conversations about the mismanagement
before my father, then I felt the "old Adam" stir within me. There she
surely was wrong. I could not bear he should have his eyes opened; he
had always fancied me a little queen in my domestic arrangements--why
should he think differently--what good did it do? If he found his
dinner nicely cooked and served, his tea and toast snugly arranged in
the library, in the evening, when he returned wearied from his office,
with his dressing-gown and slippers most temptingly spread out; then
awakened in the morning in a clean, well-ordered bed-room, with Ike at
his elbow to wait his orders, and a warm, cozy breakfast to strengthen
him ere he started out on his daily labors--if all this was carefully
and quietly provided for him, what need of his knowing how it was
done, or what straits I might be driven to sometimes, from my own
thoughtlessness or forgetfulness to accomplish these comforts for him.
I had always scrupulously avoided talking of my household affairs
before him; but when Aunt Lina discoursed so eloquently and learnedly
in his presence, slipping in once in a while such high-sounding words
as "domestic economy," "well-ordered household," "proper distribution
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