Graham's Magazine Vol XXXII No. 6 June 1848Various
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Graham's Magazine Vol XXXII No. 6 June 1848
Various
Literature -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals
Despite of all the sunshine and festivity at a bridal, there is to me
more of solemnity, almost sadness, in the scene than in any other we
are called upon to witness, save that more mournful rite, when dust is
returned to dust. There is a young and often thoughtless maiden,
taking upon herself vows which but few understand, in the depth of
their import, vows lasting as life, and on the full performance of
them depends, in a great measure, the joy or misery of her future
years. Then, too, in her trust and innocence, she does not dream that
change can come, that the loved one will ever be less considerate,
less tender, than at the present hour. True, she has been told that it
may be so--but the thought is not harbored for an instant. "He never
could speak coldly or unkindly to me," she murmurs, as eyes beaming
with deep affection meet her own. Then, too, the proud man that stands
beside her, may be but taking that gentle flower to his bosom, to cast
it aside when its perfume may have become less grateful--leaving it
crushed and faded; or, worse still--and still more improbable, though
it is sometimes so--there may be poison lurking in the seemingly pure
blossom, that will sting and embitter his future life. Oh, that woman
should ever prove false to the vow of her girlhood!
All these thoughts, I say, and many more scarcely less sorrowful, come
to my mind when I look upon a bridal; and tears will start, unbidden
it is true, when the faces of those around are radiant with smiles.
But perhaps few have learned with me the truthful lesson of the poet--
"Hope's gayest wreaths are made of earthly flowers--
Things that are made to fade, and fade away,
Ere they have blossomed for a few short hours."
How could I call up such a train of sombre thought when speaking of
Mary Gordon's marriage? None doubted her husband's truth, her own deep
devotion, as they crowded around when the simple rite was ended to
congratulate them, and breathe a fervent wish that their joy might
increase as the years of their life rolled onward. They went forth
from that quiet church with new and strange feelings springing up, and
as Mary looked upon the throng who still reiterated their friendly
wishes, she felt an inward consciousness that God had blessed and
sustained her through those years of trial and probation.
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