Graham's Magazine, Vol. XXXIV, No. 4, April 1849Various
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Graham's Magazine, Vol. XXXIV, No. 4, April 1849
Various
Literature -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals
“Heresy—rank heresy—Cousin Charles. I appeal to Uncle Lorimer, who has
heard our whole discussion, if you do not deserve excommunication with
‘bell, book and candle,’ for holding such opinions.”
The cousins were sitting together in the twilight, and, as the shadows
of evening deepened around them, the light of the soft-coal fire in the
polished grate gave a beautifully cheerful look of home comfort to the
pleasant apartment. An old gentleman, whose silver hair glittered in the
fire-light, had been sitting in the chimney-nook, and, thus appealed to
by his merry niece, he smiled good-humoredly as he replied—
“If you submit the dispute to me, I must decide against both.”
“Why so?”
“Because you are both too generalizing in your remarks. In this
work-a-day world of ours there is a daily and hourly need of the tender,
watchful, kindly ministry of sympathy and affection; now the peculiar
attributes of woman’s nature are such as fit her for this ministry; and
whether it be a mere habitude or not, it is the quality most needed by
men and most generally possessed by women.”
Anne clapped her hands, and looked triumphantly at her cousin; but Uncle
Lorimer continued—
“I must agree with Charles, however, that when men give out their whole
strength to a genuine affection, it is a more unselfish, magnanimous and
higher emotion than ever could dwell in the bosom of woman. The same
qualities which make her the gentler half of man mingle their leaven in
her affections. For instance, a woman will make any sacrifice for one
whom she loves, she will bear all kinds of privation and suffering for
his sake, but earth holds not the creature more pitilessly exacting of
affection than she is, or more jealously awake to every whisper of
distrust. Another weakness in her character is vanity; and I must
confess I never yet found a woman so much in love with her lover, that
she would not curl her hair and dress in her best to meet the eyes of
other men.”
“Oh! uncle. You are worse than Charles.”
“But perhaps you will like to hear my whole opinion, Anne. I have said
that women possess most of the quality which is required in daily life;
as I am not one of those who pretend to despise _good habits_ because
they are not _heroic virtues_, I think you ought to be satisfied with my
decision.”
“But you attribute so much nobler a quality to men.”
“That is true, but let me comfort you by just whispering in your ear,
that not one man in a thousand is capable of such an affection. True
sentiment is the rarest thing upon earth. To use the language of your
favorite poet—
Accident, blind contact, and the strong necessity of loving,
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