Graham's Magazine, Vol. XXXIV, No. 5, May 1849Various
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Graham's Magazine, Vol. XXXIV, No. 5, May 1849
Various
Literature -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals
Perfectly self-possessed, because thoroughly conscious of her own vast
superiority, and utterly indifferent as to the impression she was likely
to make, Abby’s manners in society had all the elegance and nonchalant
ease which fashion tries so hard to teach. She conversed exceedingly
well on all subjects, and possessed the gift (most rare among talented
women) of making herself as agreeable to her own sex, as to the men.
Everybody admired her, yet everybody feared her; everybody acknowledged
her rare powers, yet everybody kept at a certain distance. “He comes too
near who comes to be denied,” so says one of the wits and demi-reps of a
past age; but Abby never suffered any one to reach the confines of
_Love-Land_, and, of course, none ever attained to _Declaration Point_.
It is difficult to imagine a character like that of Aunt Abby. A woman
without softness, and tenderness, and sentiment, seems such an anomaly,
that we are tempted to doubt the probability of her possessing any of
the qualities we seek in woman. But Abby had all the necessary knowledge
of womanly duties, all the considerateness we look for in woman, all the
attention to detail which is a woman’s peculiar province, and withal was
possessed of the most indomitable good humor. She was sententious,
because every truth became, in her mind, an axiom, to be stowed away in
the smallest possible space; she was dogmatic, because her opinions were
made up by her own unaided reflection, and were not to be changed or
modified by words. Her self-esteem was prodigious; it was not the puny
vanity which is so often dignified with such a title, it was rather a
magnificent _Johnsonesque_ self-appreciation, precisely like that which
looms so grandly beside the vain pettinesses of the biographer of the
great lexicographer.
She was certainly a great puzzle to every one. A woman who could quote
Longinus, read Homer, expound a disputed text in the Hebrew Bible, chop
logic with the most caviling acuteness, and talk of the Differential
Calculus as if it were the last new poem, was certainly something of a
wonder; but when that same woman was seen seated on the milking-stool,
or standing at the churn, or presiding over a blazing oven, or, broom in
hand, raising motes in the sunbeams by her vigorous attack upon the
“dust of the schools,” or displaying the beauty of her Juno-like figure,
as she paced to and from the huge spinning-wheel; she was certainly a
_world’s_ wonder. There is a half-remembered story of Aunt Abby’s
spirit, which no one dares to talk of openly; but it is believed that a
certain gentleman, now high in civic honors, received, when a youth of
twenty, a severe _caning_ from the lady, in consequence of some
impertinence, offered when under the influence of a deep potation. But
this may be only a piece of scandal.
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