Graham's Magazine, Vol. XXXV, No. 3, September 1849Various
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Graham's Magazine, Vol. XXXV, No. 3, September 1849
Various
Literature -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals
“Before I was married,” said she, “there was a certain young man who
paid me many attentions, but whom, from some cause or other, I did not
particularly fancy. He was an excellent young man, of a good family,
and, as sober and industrious as any one in the neighborhood. Still, for
all this, I felt more like repulsing than giving him encouragement. He
saw that I avoided him when I could do so without appearing rude, and
this made him more distant; yet I could see that his mind was on me. I
would often meet his eyes when we were in company; and he would come to
my side whenever he could do so without appearing to be intrusive. His
many excellent qualities, and the manliness of character for which he
was distinguished, prevented me from treating him otherwise than
respectfully. As a friend, I liked him, but when he approached, as was
evidently the case, in the character of a lover, I could not be
otherwise than cold and reserved. There were two or three other young
men who appeared fond of my company, any one of whom I would have
accepted, had he offered himself, in preference to this one.
“Such was the state of my love affairs, when Halloween came round. A
cousin, a young girl about my own age, was spending a few weeks in our
family, and she and I talked over the matter of trying sweethearts.
After looking at the subject in its various lights and shades, we
finally determined to summon up the requisite courage, and burn a
love-candle. So, after all the family were in bed, which was not until
after eleven o’clock, we began to make preparations for this ceremony.
Burning the love-candle is done in this way. A table is set with bread,
cakes and fruit; or any other articles of food that may be selected.
Plates for as many guests as are expected are also put upon the table;
but no knives or forks, lest the guests should, by any accident, harm
themselves. A little before midnight a candle, in which a row of nine
new pins have been placed just below the wick, is lighted and set upon
the table. The distance between the row of pins and the burning end of
the candle must not be greater than will melt away by the time the hour
of twelve strikes. When the candle burns down to the pins, they drop one
after the other, and just as the last one falls, the apparitions of the
future husbands of those who try the charm will enter, it is said, sit
down to the table and eat, and then rise up and go away.
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