Graham's Magazine, Vol. XXXV, No. 4, October 1849Various
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Graham's Magazine, Vol. XXXV, No. 4, October 1849
Various
Literature -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals
The distinguished Mr. Coke of South Carolina, seemed to me in some
considerable intercourse, to have rather a brilliant fancy, but to lack
that severe discipline which goes to make a man truly and permanently
great and popular—yet he seldom failed in producing a considerable
effect on an audience which he addressed, whatever might be the subject,
and nervous as was his system—he rarely evinced on the morning after a
defeat any tokens of irritation or discouragement. His wife made it her
business, and it became her pleasure to be an auditor of his
narrations—to hear his complaints against individuals at the moment of
anger and seem to forget his charges when returning equanimity led him
to speak in a different tone and temper of his vigorous and sometimes
successful antagonist.
He never came from a public exercise of his talents without being
willingly compelled to give an account of the whole matter to his
family, unless it was unpleasant; in that case his wife was the
attentive soothing listener.
The triumph of the forum or the ‘stump’ (pardon the Americanism,) was
doubled in the joy which the narration gave to the family, and the
unpleasant occurrences of such arenas were never referred to in the
family, so that Coke was sure of pleasure at home, whatever may have
been the pleasure abroad—he was sure of delicate sympathy at home
whatever may have been the vexation abroad. His fireside was the seat of
pleasure—his house was his home—his home was a home.
What is the result of all this? The course of Mr. Coke as all know has
been onward and upward—not with the swiftness or the sunlike aim of
Blackstone—but steadily, constantly, and successfully. Charge Mrs.
Blackstone with having impeded the course of her gifted husband, and she
would start with anger at, and abhorrence of the charge. She had never
disgraced him by misconduct, nor hindered him by interference.
Credit Mrs. Coke with having been the cause of her husband’s success,
and she would be not less astonished; she knew nothing of the subjects
of which her husband had acquired fame by speaking; she had consequently
never assisted in his preparation for public display, nor added an idea
to his brief.
The cold negative of Mrs. Blackstone had chilled her husband into
indifference or disgust.
The cheering warmth of Mrs. Coke’s affectionate attention and timely
attendance had inspired her husband with that proper degree of
self-respect which is necessary to self-dependence, and her soothing
sympathies had lulled unfriendly feelings toward others, so that he lost
nothing of acquired popularity by injudicious utterance of irritated
feelings.
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