Graham's Magazine, Vol. XXXV, No. 4, October 1849Various
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Graham's Magazine, Vol. XXXV, No. 4, October 1849
Various
Literature -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals
Let no female reader think the dignity or the rights of her sex invaded,
nor the wrongs neglected, and start up to declare what a miserable state
a bad husband imposes upon a wife; we are speaking of an independent
evil. We know how much misery is brought into families, and how all good
is banished by the follies and wickedness of the husband. But our
business now is to speak of the errors of the wife—faults of character
which it seems almost impossible to correct in the individual, but which
must be looked to and avoided by those who look to marriage as a means
of happiness and advancement. The person must be avoided: faults of
conduct are more or less easily corrected, as they more or less depend
upon the character, condition, or temper of the individual. But, alas!
when, after repeated monitions, and as repeated failures, people come to
say “it is her way,” then it seems almost impossible to hope for
success.
It appears to us, however, worth while for men, and women too, to look
at the circumstances to which we profess only to have referred. Let them
weigh the value of domestic peace—let them estimate the worth of home
attractions and home pleasures, and let some one sit down and look
calmly and philosophically at the influence of family peace, family
pleasure, family support, upon the character and condition of a man—of
the husband—and then see whether what _we_ have noticed is not worth
the notice of others.
We do not say that the man of learning wants a learned wife, nor that
the statesman needs a political partner. But both need a wife who will
sympathize in their feelings, will try to improve advantages and
mitigate evils, and thus to bring to the house and the fireside the
great sources of man’s happiness and man’s triumphs.
* * * * *
REVIEW OF NEW BOOKS.
_A Second Visit to the United States of North America. By Sir
Charles Lyell, F. R. S. New York: Harper & Brothers. 2 vols.
12mo._
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