Harper's New Monthly Magazine, No. XXVII, August 1852, Vol. VVarious
History
Harper's New Monthly Magazine, No. XXVII, August 1852, Vol. V
Various
American literature -- Periodicals; Civilization -- Periodicals; Culture -- Periodicals
The married life of the "happy pair" commenced. First one, and then
another "toddling wee thing" presented itself in the young mother's
household, and the mother's cares and responsibilities multiplied.
But, to tell the truth, Elizabeth, though a beauty, was not a very
good manager. She could sit at the head of her husband's table, and
do the honors of the house to perfection. But look into her
wardrobe, into her drawers, into her kitchen, and you would say at
once, there was the want of the managing head, and the ready hand. A
good housewife, like a good poet, is "born, not made"--_nascitur non
fit_. It's true. There are some women whom no measure of drilling
can convert into good housewives. They may lay down systems,
cultivate domesticity, study tidying, spending, house-drilling, as
an art, and yet they can not acquire it. To others it comes without
effort, without consciousness, as a kind of second nature. They are
"to the manner born." They don't know how it is themselves. Yet
their hand seems to shed abroad order, regularity, and peace, in the
household. Under their eye, and without any seeming effort on their
part, every thing falls into its proper place, and every thing is
done at its proper time. Elizabeth did not know how it was; yet,
somehow, she could not get servants like any body else (how often
imperfect management is set down to account of "bad servants!"); she
could not get things to go smoothly; there was always something
"getting across;" the house got out of order; dinners were not ready
at the right time, and then the husband grew querulous; somehow, the
rooms could not be kept very tidy, for the mistress of the household
having her hands full of children, of course she "could not attend
to every thing;" and, in short, poor Elizabeth's household was fast
getting into a state of muddle.
Now, husbands don't like this state of things, and so, the result of
it was, that Elizabeth's husband, though not a bad-natured man,
sometimes grew cross and complaining, and the beautiful wife found
that her husband had "a temper"--as who has not? And about the same
time, the husband found that his wife was "no manager,"
notwithstanding her good looks. Though his wife studied economy, yet
he discovered that, somehow, she got through a deal of money, and
yet there was little comfort got in exchange for it. Things were
evidently in a bad way, and going wrong entirely. What might have
been the end, who knows? But, happily, at this juncture, aunt Jane,
the children's pet, the "little droll old maid," appeared on the
stage; and though sisters are not supposed to be of good omen in
other sisters' houses, certainly it must be admitted that, in this
case, the "old maid" at once worked a wonderful charm.
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