Harper's New Monthly Magazine, Vol. 1. No 1, June 1850Various
General
Harper's New Monthly Magazine, Vol. 1. No 1, June 1850
Various
American literature -- Periodicals; Civilization -- Periodicals; Culture -- Periodicals
"Yes, my dear, there are few of the minor evils--if minor it can be
called--that I have thought productive of more daily discomforts than
that. At times the evils assume a much greater magnitude, and are very
serious indeed. Alienated hearts--divided families--property to a large
amount unjustly and unrighteously diverted from its natural channel--and
misery, not to be told, about old age and a dying bed."
Catherine slightly shuddered, and said:
"I have not had an opportunity of seeing much of the world, you know;
what you say is rather what I feared it might be, than what I have
actually observed; but I have had a sort of divination of what might in
future arise. It is inexplicable to me the power a servant may gain, and
the tyrannical way in which she will dare to exercise it. The
unaccountable way in which those who have every title to command, may be
brought to obey is scarcely to be believed, and to me inexplicable."
"Fear and indolence, my dear. Weak spirits and a weak body, upon the one
side; on the other, that species of force which want of feeling, want of
delicacy, want of a nice conscience, want even of an enlarged
understanding--which rough habits and coarse perceptions bestow. Believe
me, dear girl, almost as much power is obtained in this foolish world by
the absence of certain qualities as by the possession of others. Silly
people think it so nice and easy to govern, and so hard to obey. It
requires many higher qualities, and much more rule over the spirit to
command obedience than to pay it."
"Yes, no doubt one does not think enough of that. Jeremy Taylor, in his
fine prayers, has one for a new married wife just about to enter a
family: he teaches her to pray for 'a right judgment in all things; not
to be annoyed at trifles; nor discomposed by contrariety of accidents;'
a spirit 'to overcome all my infirmities, and comply with and bear with
the infirmities of others; giving offense to none, but doing good to all
I can, but I think he should have added a petition for strength to rule
and guide that portion of the household which falls under her immediate
care with a firm and righteous hand, not yielding feebly to the undue
encroachment of others, not suffering, through indolence or a mistaken
love of peace, evil habits to creep over those who look up to us and
depend upon us, to their own infinite injury as well as to our own.' Ah!
that is the part of a woman's duty hardest to fulfill; and I almost
tremble," said the young bride elect, "when I think how heavy the
responsibility; and how hard I shall find it to acquit myself as I
desire."
"In this as in other things," answered Mrs. Danvers, affectionately
passing her hand over her young favorite's smooth and shining hair, "I
have ever observed there is but one portion of real strength; one force
alone by which we can move mountains. But, in that strength we assuredly
are able to move mountains. Was this all that you had to say, my dear?"
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